The term “topping from the bottom” is thrown about by Won Twoo Wayists the way that “Did you find everything you were looking for?” is tossed out by grocery store check clerks, and with the sneering disdain usually reserved for the ‘poor, unaware vanillas.’
Submissives and slaves are told, “You’re topping from the bottom. You’re not a real ______!”
What is this ‘topping from the bottom’, and why is it so heinous a crime?
Let’s rip this shit open!
Urban Dictionary defines topping from the bottom as:
In its basic, literal sense, it means exactly what it says. The person on the bottom is leading the top, thus technically topping from the bottom.
The person on the bottom (submissive/slave) is leading.
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