Why “WHY?” Is A Sucky Question…

Why “WHY?” Is A Sucky Question…

…to others or to yourself: It doesn’t solve anything or change behaviors. It is often interpreted as “explain/defend yourself.” We are not logical creatures. In fact, it’s been proven that we often create the “why” after the...
The IDEA of D/s

The IDEA of D/s

Hanging out with kinsters, reading FetLife, dating freaky folk, eventually it often comes to a point where it all seems so… mundane. So unimpressive. Don’t worry. That’s quite normal. After all, humans see patterns in everything, and we are always...
What Is The Source Of Your Frustration?

What Is The Source Of Your Frustration?

If you feel frustrated with or have resentment towards another person not living up to who you think they should be, you are likely in a covert contract, and need to rethink your path, clearing it of entitlement and non-consensual expectations. Communicate. Set...

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