You Get In Your Own Gawddam Way

You Get In Your Own Gawddam Way

This past weekend, I taught a communications class at the Submissive Safe Haven Symposium, and thanks to starting the class with a Q&A, we ventured into some territory and ideas that I’ve not really verbalized or taught before. And one was pretty...
When Men Cock Block Themselves

When Men Cock Block Themselves

I usually write from a calendar of ideas and inspiration. Right now, mine is full through sometime in October. But, sometimes, I write what’s on my my mind RIGHT NOW. Or I write about something that keeps coming up over and over. Because, I figure if it’s...
Rejection Often Reveals The Truth

Rejection Often Reveals The Truth

Back in June of 2018, I wrote a piece about “time served in the lifestyle,” and how it is not necessarily an indicator of quality, experience, goodness, etc. @StandandTwirl commented on FetLife: Save plenty of time and reject a Dom. He will reveal his true...
Is It Gay? Really?

Is It Gay? Really?

A friend of mine posted this image about a year ago on FB: It confused a lot of people. And I understand the confusion. They are differentiating sex and gender in this image in ways that are not familiar to most people. If you are homosexual, you are assumed (in this...

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