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“If I have to ask you, I do not want it anymore.” A RANT

“If I have to ask you, I do not want it anymore.” A RANT

[CW: vulgarity and strong language] I'm gonna get real in here. I'm gonna use the F-word, and I'm not pulling punches. This here is a Nookie rant, and I'mma go off. You've been warned. I’m not going to ask you to kiss me,neither ask for forgiveness when I believe that...

We are never ready.

We are never ready.

We are never "ready" for all that we do. We might be prepared, but ready? Nope. Take kids for example. We might read up. Know intellectually what might happen. Have training and thoughts about everything. And then, it happens. And 18 nights in a row of interrupted...

“Well, then just stick it in her a** while she’s asleep…”

“Well, then just stick it in her a** while she’s asleep…”

Laughter ensued. I did a slow blink. I paused. And I shook my head. The group of people I had just joined laughed even harder. It's amazing how a snippet of something out of context can completely change it's meaning, isn't it? And I took that WAYYYYYYY out of...

I’m a little…different in how I think.

I’m a little…different in how I think.

LOL! You probably know this by now, right? Or, maybe you're just meeting me. Well, I think a bit differently than most people. I always have. For a good portion of my life, that set me apart and made me feel alone. Until I learned "how to human" as I call it. Part of...

Setting and maintaining boundaries: for submissives.

Setting and maintaining boundaries: for submissives.

My book for this month is about submission, and the amazing people who choose submission as their role in power exchange relationships. Because the submissives in my life are freaking amazing people, who serve with love and intention, and I want to give back to others...

It’s against human nature to knowingly make a mistake.

It’s against human nature to knowingly make a mistake.

It's against human nature to knowingly making a mistake. People ALWAYS choose the best path for them at the time. Even when that path is, "I'm going to try this thing and it may not work, but I will at least grow from it." Because it's instinctually BAD to make...

Manipulation & abuse is not always malevolent.

Manipulation & abuse is not always malevolent.

In fact, I'd postulate that it rarely is.  It's rarely intentional, considered, or thought through.  It's a behavior formed through the years of getting what they want from people by doing whatever behavior works.  The fact that it manipulates people...

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