Last night, My partner and I watched An Officer and A Gentleman. My first time. His idea. Actually, he and his friend, who also watched it with us. Great movie. At the end, I said, “So, did they make this a military movie, so the guys wouldn’t feel so bad going to see a romance?” […]
In my recent writing about standards, someone mentioned that while they think standards are good, that they can be taken too far, so that you eventually filter out all potential matches. Which is the point I made in my recent video, “7 Reasons Your Online Dating Profile Isn’t Getting The Response You Want” when I […]
First, let me say that I don’t really get NRE in the way many people in nonmonogamy or poly do. I’m monoromantic, and I really only have twitterpation for one person at any time. I wondered for years what was wrong with me. Turns out that’s just the way I’m wired. I do love others, […]
The word of the week is “lush”. To participate, create a 15-word story with lush, lushly, or lushness. I can’t wait to see your creativity! smiles A full day.Lushly naked and indolent.Sunshine and linen sheets.You and me.Perfection.
To me, standards and boundaries go hand-in-hand. Boundaries inform standards of behavior at the very least. And it’s not healthy to lower those. But let’s say we’re talking about other standards. How someone looks, for example. Why should I care if I’m attracted to someone? Why should you? Don’t we all have a right to […]
I wrote last week about how perception changes how we experience reality. A lot of people got it. A few didn’t. They wanted to discuss what is actually real, and how dumb it is to wish away the bad stuff. 🙄 Some people wanted more details on the subject. OK! smiles Let me start with […]
I interact with a lot of new people. They find me and write, and say, “Hey, I’m new to all this kinky stuff.” And I write, “welcome to the wonderful world of kink. It’s full of fun and danger and astonishingly awesome people and a few bad seeds, and there is so much to do […]
☝️☝️ Words to live by, if you ask me. You didn’t ask me though, LOL! And I’m going to tell you anyway. And it doesn’t have to be your kinky thing. It can be your poly thing. Your golf thing. Your storm chasers thing. It doesn’t even have to be WHAT you do. It can […]
Like in The Matrix, although I effing hate that analogy, because, well, red pill, blue pill bullshit. But they’re right. Even when they’re wrong, they have that perception part right. Once you perceive your world a certain way, and commit to it, your experiences of the world will often conform to your desires and expectations. […]
The word of the week is “divine”. To participate, create a 15-word story with the word of the week and post it. I can’t wait to see your creativity! smiles Devouring me.Ransacking my body.Displaying need.Offering bliss.Sharing ecstasy.I manifest the divine.