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NRE: New Relationship Energy

Wikipedia says: New relationship energy (or NRE) refers to a state of mind experienced at the beginning of sexual and romantic relationships, typically involving heightened emotional and sexual feelings and excitement. NRE begins with the earliest attractions, may grow into full force when mutuality is established, and can fade over months or years. The term […]

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Love me, love my passions.

How can you love someone and not love that they love [fill in the blank]? I really don’t get it. Because, to me, part of loving someone is getting Uber-geeked about the things they love. Not that I love those things myself. I’m no fucking saint. But I love that they love them, and I […]

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What about the guys who are respectful, and polite and never receive a reply, or even a polite, “No Thanks”?

Won’t someone think about the guys?!? 😩😩😩 “For less that five minutes a day, you too can help stop the inhumane neglect of men on internet dating sites…” Sorry. I’m being a bit snarky. (Prefer to listen to the podcast? https://datingkinky.com/pod/the-guys ) Overall, I do feel bad from men who find themselves sending messages and […]

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A good relationship is easy.

I want to say that, because so many people say a relationship is hard work. I disagree, at least for me. I mean, it can contain some work. A lot of it, really. Most of it self-work (because as I said earlier this week, you can’t change others). But the relationship overall is easy. And […]

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What are your “true colors?”

Someone commented on one of my writings and said: I’ve always been confused by the fact that people say they’ve seen your true colours when you’ve had an angry reaction.We’re all human and capable of a wide spectrum of human emotion. Why is anger always seen as our “true colour”? And I immediately made a […]

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Be willing to be awful at things.

I said in a writing recently, “I’ve thought about it, and I don’t think I’m built for that.” Someone replied that they didn’t like the way it’s phrased, because it sounded like it meant that I was speaking of being built for less (than what I was referring to), even thought hey acknowledged that wasn’t […]

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