The weight of the idea of THE ONE…

The weight of the idea of THE ONE…

Last night, I hosted Life in Submission, despite the fact that I’m not a submissive. To bolster my cred, I brought along @selene73 (Happy Birthday to her!) to share her perspectives as a submissive on the idea that you have to have power in order to exchange it....
On being understood, intuitively…

On being understood, intuitively…

I’ve written in the past about abuse in a relationship and recovering from it. And when today’s topic popped up on my calendar, it instantly connected. When I got married, I believed that my husband understood me. This belief is what ultimately led me to...
Let’s talk about TRUST.

Let’s talk about TRUST.

I recently had a conversation with someone online that did not ultimately go positively. They’d asked me a question about my personal experience, and when I replied, they picked at my reply, taking it apart, and then eventually offering THEIR counterpoints and...
Bossy Bottoms & Subdued Submissives

Bossy Bottoms & Subdued Submissives

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Inspired by an email I received on 10/14/19. You know what I’ve found? That many submissives mistake submission for helplessness. Not speaking to anyone in particular… just something I’ve observed. For...
Settling is Shitty

Settling is Shitty

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I got into a conversation on twitter yesterday about online and offline dating and how many people write their profile one way but want something else, and are discouraged about getting that something else, so they...

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