Want to get better at love? Study!

Want to get better at love? Study!

Earlier this year, an article popped up in my recommendations: “If you want love, study it first.” I admit that I cribbed a bit on the title, but I think that mine is better anyway. Because people give and receive love without study. We just seem to mess it up a...
Trust is not about liking someone…

Trust is not about liking someone…

I think too many people make that mistake. They like someone, or they are attracted to them, and so they believe they can be trusted. As the commercial says, “That’s not how this works. That’s not how any of this works.” I know that people trust me FAR MORE now that...
I’d pause my game for you.

I’d pause my game for you.

Well, I’d put down my book, anyway. I don’t really play many games. Solitaire on my phone sometimes. But the point here is more than what I’d pause or put down or put off. It’s about bids. Bids for attention. John Gottman studies couples. And he can predict with an...
It can’t be all…

It can’t be all…

A core of any good relationship, kinky or otherwise, is support and encouragement. Most people in power exchange relationships intuitively understand that this it’s important for the dominant to support and encourage their sub. And it is. I also present to you that...

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