Dating Kinky, The Class

One of the most common questions I’m asked is, “Where Do I Find ______ (Fill In The Blank Amazing Kinky Person)?”

This class address that topic and others, including writing a profile, photos, starting a conversation, and more.

Dating Kinky Class Description:

In this class, we’ll cover some of the most important actions and attitudes for finding one or several lifestyle partners, from writing your profile and choosing the best photos to get your point across to making contact, common pitfalls, and some hilarious examples of ‘when personals go wrong!’

We’ll also discuss which online sites offer the best options for connecting with your kinky peeps.

This is a very interactive class, so bring your pencil or pen and some paper to write down those tips from the creator of and the co-author of

More about my thoughts on kinky dating:

Kinky Dating


I Command You To Understand! Communication For Kinky Relationships

If only it worked that way, right? Life would be so much easier.

But, alas.

We need to look for other methods. Luckily, I have a few suggestions.

Communication Class Description:

No matter where you turn for advice in this world of kinky relationships and power exchange, “Communicate,” is the first thing you’ll hear. So, what is communication? How do we get better at it? We’ll talk about the pieces of communication and how they add up to make a successful kinky relationship.

Read more about my thoughts in kinky communication.

The Art Of Toilet Paper Bondage: Behavior Modification In Power Exchange Relationships

I like to say that behavior modification happens whether you want it to or not, so understanding it can play a critical role in your power exchange.

Heck, I recommend it to both sides of the slash and anyone who wants to get more from their relationships with others…

Behavior Modification Class Description:

What is behavior modification? It’s how behavior is changed through interaction. In D/s circles, we may call it training, but even in vanilla situations, behavior modification happens whether you want it to or not. So, since it’s going to happen anyway, why not do it right? This class is all about the basics of behavior modification and how to make it work for you in your relationships, and how to use it as the basis for more in-depth D/s training.

See more about my thoughts on Behavior Modification.

I Love To Teach! Bio & Stuff

So, I teach. I LOVE to teach. In fact, even my vanilla life and profession has been mostly about teaching and inspiring others.

So, doing this in kink is just delightful!

I’ve created a category to hold my class descriptions, educational content, and books for anyone interested, so you can find it all here.


NookieNotes, known by most as Nookie, grew up in the lifestyle and around people of every color and bent. Her primary fetishes are communication and behavior modification. She’s a lifestyle dominant who runs her relationships and enjoys switching in the bedroom. She is currently building a new kinky dating site:


NookieNotes, September 2018