| 05-21-2020 07:32 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Hi Vir!
My name is Ryan - I work for Nookie on the Dating Kinky Team.
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| 05-21-2020 07:32 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Welcome!
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| 05-21-2020 07:32 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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Hi. Can you hear me?
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| 05-21-2020 07:32 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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Also I need to re-upload my presentation. I did that before
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| 05-21-2020 07:32 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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I can indeed hear you
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| 05-21-2020 07:32 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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I'm not hearing anything.
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| 05-21-2020 07:32 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Actually, I may have just heard a keystroke.
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| 05-21-2020 07:33 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Not positive, however.
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| 05-21-2020 07:33 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Can you hear me?
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| 05-21-2020 07:33 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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Yes, I can hear you
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| 05-21-2020 07:34 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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You still don't hear me? Hmm
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| 05-21-2020 07:34 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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this weorked berfore
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| 05-21-2020 07:34 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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let me check a few settings here just in case
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| 05-21-2020 07:34 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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It was on me
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| 05-21-2020 07:46 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Hello Sasha & Tykitten! Can you hear us?
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| 05-21-2020 07:47 PM |
Sasha |
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Yes, sound is working!
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| 05-21-2020 07:48 PM |
Gesichtman |
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hi there
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| 05-21-2020 07:49 PM |
Me |
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Hi 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 07:49 PM |
Me |
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No, I entered 'Me'
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| 05-21-2020 07:49 PM |
JustDame |
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Hi!
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| 05-21-2020 07:49 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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Hello!
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| 05-21-2020 07:49 PM |
Kim |
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Hi, all!
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| 05-21-2020 07:49 PM |
Kim |
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Different Kim. x3
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| 05-21-2020 07:50 PM |
Gesichtman |
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hello from George!
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| 05-21-2020 07:51 PM |
Gesichtman |
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this is very interesting, thank you
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| 05-21-2020 07:52 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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I even set an alarm to wake up in time to be here ^^
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| 05-21-2020 07:52 PM |
purplepixie |
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Greetings Miss Nookie and Ryan
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| 05-21-2020 07:52 PM |
Rockpebble58 |
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Hello
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| 05-21-2020 07:53 PM |
AutumnOfTheHunt |
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Thank you!
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| 05-21-2020 07:53 PM |
Lila B |
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Hey guys!
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| 05-21-2020 07:53 PM |
Alix |
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I'm a bot
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| 05-21-2020 07:54 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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same
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| 05-21-2020 07:54 PM |
JustDame |
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I love that we get to set an avatar photo 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 07:54 PM |
april / monogamousslut13 |
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hello all!
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| 05-21-2020 07:54 PM |
Sass |
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Hi there 🙂 Nice to see you again
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| 05-21-2020 07:55 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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Glad to be here
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| 05-21-2020 07:55 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Can everyone hear Nookie?
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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yes
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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Hi everybody!
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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HI Nookie and Ryan
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
Gesichtman |
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i can hear nookie
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
CaramelR |
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hi there!
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
MxBliss |
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Hello--thanks for this wonderful topic@
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
Melissa |
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Hello all
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| 05-21-2020 07:56 PM |
Angela |
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hello guys!
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
PunishMe/Bob |
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Greeting all.
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
bella dev |
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let me google it for you
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
Sass |
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Is setting an avatar a member only thing?
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
bella dev |
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Hi everyone
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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no Sass
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
Lynx |
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Hello
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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im not a member in here ^^
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
Sass |
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ah I see now
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| 05-21-2020 07:57 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://lmgtfy.com/
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| 05-21-2020 07:58 PM |
bella dev |
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you too 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 07:58 PM |
J-N-L |
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Hi NNookie
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| 05-21-2020 07:58 PM |
Leadfingers |
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Cum-roo
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| 05-21-2020 07:58 PM |
Cymru |
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kim - roo
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| 05-21-2020 07:58 PM |
Leadfingers |
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It's Welsh
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| 05-21-2020 07:59 PM |
Ellia |
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Hi <3
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| 05-21-2020 07:59 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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Hi Leadfingers : )
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| 05-21-2020 07:59 PM |
Cymru |
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its how you pronounce wales in celtic
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| 05-21-2020 07:59 PM |
Kelly (boundkel) |
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hello 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 07:59 PM |
NovacaineHart |
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Hello
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| 05-21-2020 08:00 PM |
Amy |
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Hi There
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Kora K. (she/her) |
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Hiiii
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
BlackMusic |
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Hello
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
MM |
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hello!
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Gesichtman |
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are you serving wine?
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
cloudburg |
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Hi!
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Sass |
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I know Cloudberg! *waves*
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
RICH Stephen NJ |
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Good Evening...
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Bells |
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hello from Ontario
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Editrix |
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Hi from Seattle
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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did somebody say wine above?
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Sammy |
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Hello from San Francisco
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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hello from europe 😋
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| 05-21-2020 08:01 PM |
Mark-EnergeticIntent (he/him) |
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Hello from Toronto Canada!
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| 05-21-2020 08:02 PM |
Mark-EnergeticIntent (he/him) |
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Fun - brain worms!!
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| 05-21-2020 08:02 PM |
Sunset |
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Are our camera/mic settings turned off by default? 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 08:02 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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its 2 am here, good morning lol
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| 05-21-2020 08:02 PM |
Sass |
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Minneapolis, Minnesota here
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| 05-21-2020 08:03 PM |
Sass |
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2am? Wow
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| 05-21-2020 08:03 PM |
MsKonstrue |
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Hello!
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| 05-21-2020 08:03 PM |
Fay (@Feridis) |
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yeah
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| 05-21-2020 08:03 PM |
Angela |
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yes @Sunset
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| 05-21-2020 08:03 PM |
Mark-EnergeticIntent (he/him) |
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Ah if you could hear my verbal rsponse to that!!
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| 05-21-2020 08:03 PM |
Kristerina |
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the godfather of erotic hypno 😄
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
Sunset |
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Thank you Angela!
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
Lexy |
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Hi hi 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
Meep |
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How do you turn on the video and mic? I checked my fet late and didn't notice it wouldn't be over zoom
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
Angela |
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you're welcome
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
Mark-EnergeticIntent (he/him) |
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Vir - notticed this today which seemed timely - https://fetlife.com/users/1365/statuses/26503302
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Meep - chatters aren't able to turn on their audio/video
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
SomeBloke |
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I've been told that I adopt a Welsh accent when I say endearing things.
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| 05-21-2020 08:04 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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We record these episodes, so we do that for your protection.
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| 05-21-2020 08:05 PM |
Meep |
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Oh so are we allowed to actually put on video and mic or is that just for the people running the event?
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| 05-21-2020 08:05 PM |
NovacaineHart |
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anethesia
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| 05-21-2020 08:05 PM |
Sass |
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This is me... I was debating on protecting my kink identity but meh
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| 05-21-2020 08:05 PM |
Meep |
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ohh okay
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| 05-21-2020 08:05 PM |
Mark-EnergeticIntent (he/him) |
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Where do the recordings go?
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| 05-21-2020 08:06 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Meep - your audio/video buttons are disabled, for the above stated reason.
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| 05-21-2020 08:06 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Hope that helps.
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| 05-21-2020 08:06 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Mark - great question - all of the recorded webinars get posted on the Dating Kinky website.
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| 05-21-2020 08:06 PM |
Meep |
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Yeah I just noticed
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| 05-21-2020 08:06 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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I'll throw up an example link in a minute.
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| 05-21-2020 08:06 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/goodies/
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| 05-21-2020 08:07 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/community/
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| 05-21-2020 08:09 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
And please do put ANY questions yo have her into chat. Ryan and I will be collecting them as we go. *smiles*
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| 05-21-2020 08:09 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Yes, we love hearing your questions!
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| 05-21-2020 08:10 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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I would have appreciated pre-notice tthat this event was recorded and could be recding out the names that we give at login and our comments/questiosn.
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| 05-21-2020 08:10 PM |
AP |
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Athena here! Hello all!!!!
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| 05-21-2020 08:10 PM |
Alix |
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session 3 - missing verb first line
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| 05-21-2020 08:11 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
RandomCanadian, that information is in all of our RSVP and reminder info.
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| 05-21-2020 08:11 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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I checked the FL post and there was no notice of recording so I made different choices when I would have
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| 05-21-2020 08:12 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Also, NOTHING you use here is tied to your identity. You do not need to use an email or any identifying information, your sound will not work, nor will your camera.
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| 05-21-2020 08:12 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Thansk Miss Nookie.- I don't see the word recording on the event or in the PM whch was sent to me
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| 05-21-2020 08:12 PM |
Phoenix |
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what's looning
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| 05-21-2020 08:12 PM |
AP |
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Poly/ENM
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| 05-21-2020 08:12 PM |
Phoenix |
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ahh.
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| 05-21-2020 08:12 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
From the FL Page: REPLAY INFORMATION
This series will be posted with FREE replays, here: https://datingkinky.com/webinars/special-events/protecting-your-kink-identity/
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| 05-21-2020 08:12 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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It's my FL name which I was concerned about having read out and posted to the web.
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| 05-21-2020 08:13 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Thanks for the pointers
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| 05-21-2020 08:13 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Hi Athena! Welcome.
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| 05-21-2020 08:13 PM |
AP |
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@Phoenix... Idk what looning is either.
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| 05-21-2020 08:13 PM |
Meep |
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Love the powerpoint layout
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| 05-21-2020 08:13 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Also, in the RSVP we send to everyone: FOUR. If you haven’t, please do check out Dating Kinky’s Community Guidelines, our Webinar FAQs and some notes on how we work to assure your privacy.
Including links to information on how we record, how we protect privacy, and etc.
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| 05-21-2020 08:14 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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Vir's audio is cutting in and out
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| 05-21-2020 08:14 PM |
Phoenix |
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@AP they said it was poly/ENP or something
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| 05-21-2020 08:14 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Beauty_for_Ashes, that would be a local issue. You may want to refresh the page, or try moving closer to your signal.
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| 05-21-2020 08:14 PM |
Phoenix |
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ENM
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| 05-21-2020 08:14 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Hi Beauty - the audio has been clear as a bell for me. Perhaps try a refresh if the situation continues?
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| 05-21-2020 08:14 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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thanks!
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| 05-21-2020 08:14 PM |
Phoenix |
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btw, what's enm?
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Ethical Non Monogamy
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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audio is pefect for me
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
Phoenix |
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ty sir
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Thanks, Miss D.
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
Ellia |
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I refreshed and opened in another browser and still having issues too with cutting in/out.
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
ENM = Ethical Nonmonogamy
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
Kora K. (she/her) |
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Sounds like a you problem. audio good on my end.
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| 05-21-2020 08:15 PM |
Phoenix |
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so, another name for poly
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| 05-21-2020 08:16 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
If there a poor signal, you may have issues with audio—especially with the torrential downpour we're having in NC, Ellia. *smiles*
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| 05-21-2020 08:16 PM |
Phoenix |
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the audio sounds like it redlines a bit, but otherwise fine on my end
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| 05-21-2020 08:16 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Larry Garfield's a familiar name.
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| 05-21-2020 08:16 PM |
Ellia |
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Ughhhh... the rain
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| 05-21-2020 08:16 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Phoenix, Poly is a part of ENM, along with swinging, open relationships, RA, cuckolding, etc.
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| 05-21-2020 08:16 PM |
Meep |
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Yay for noobies! 😄
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| 05-21-2020 08:16 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Indeed, Meep!
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| 05-21-2020 08:17 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
YAY Dating KinkY!
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| 05-21-2020 08:17 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Tha's MY site, LOL!
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| 05-21-2020 08:17 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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: )
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| 05-21-2020 08:17 PM |
Phoenix |
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I am a noob but I'm not seeing the distinction.
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| 05-21-2020 08:17 PM |
Phoenix |
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I've always understood poly to be ethical and emphasize honesty
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| 05-21-2020 08:18 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Phoenix, Polyamory means "many loves," and not everyone who is ethically nonmonogmaous is specifically looking for love connections.
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| 05-21-2020 08:18 PM |
Kora K. (she/her) |
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Great slides so far...thanks for this wonderful topic.
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| 05-21-2020 08:18 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
It's like a square/rectangle.
Poly is Ethical nonmonogamy, while ENM is not necessarily poly.
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| 05-21-2020 08:18 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
You're very welcome, Kora!
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| 05-21-2020 08:19 PM |
Me |
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Not all phones are iphones, but an iphone is a phone => not all ENM relationships are poly, but poly is a ENM relationship
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| 05-21-2020 08:19 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Good example, Me!
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| 05-21-2020 08:19 PM |
Phoenix |
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so what's an enm that's not poly
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| 05-21-2020 08:19 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Swinging.
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| 05-21-2020 08:19 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Cuckolding.
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Polyfuckery.
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Etc.
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Sass |
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is there a way to make the chatbox bigger?
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Sass |
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nvm I'm dumb
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
You can minimize the Audio & Video and the Participants box, Sass.
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
*smiles*
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Sass, if you click the "up/down" arrow, that should expand the chat space
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Kora K. (she/her) |
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One thing I enjoy about the community is (idealistically) us focusing on getting to know people for who they are and values as opposed to defining people by their jobs.
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Phoenix |
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Ohhh...yeah that was right in my face all along
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| 05-21-2020 08:20 PM |
Sass |
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haha thanks guys
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| 05-21-2020 08:21 PM |
Phoenix |
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thanks Nookie
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| 05-21-2020 08:21 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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the "up//down" arrow in this box
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| 05-21-2020 08:21 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
I agree, Kora. Beautifully put!
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| 05-21-2020 08:21 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
YW, Phoenix. You might enjoy https://notcheating.com coming up June 13-14.
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| 05-21-2020 08:21 PM |
Phoenix |
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I'm guessing I will be asking lots of questions
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| 05-21-2020 08:21 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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"Not all phones are iphones, but an iphone is a phone => not all ENM relationships are poly, but poly is a ENM relationship"
Me - I love logic statements - you're aces in my book!
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| 05-21-2020 08:22 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Indeed. <3
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| 05-21-2020 08:22 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Spreadsheet!
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| 05-21-2020 08:22 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Whee!
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| 05-21-2020 08:23 PM |
AP |
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@Ryan... Just fyi... The fb, twitter, etc buttons are partially covering the chat box. Hoping this can be relocated in the future.
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| 05-21-2020 08:24 PM |
Gesichtman |
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i have been informally told if i become a paid member ofthe Biden legal team i will be outed by the the trump people
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| 05-21-2020 08:24 PM |
Kora K. (she/her) |
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*^there's an arrow for that.
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| 05-21-2020 08:24 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
AP, what browser/device are you on? Could you send screenshots to cs@datingkinky.com?
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| 05-21-2020 08:24 PM |
Phoenix |
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wait you what?
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| 05-21-2020 08:24 PM |
SomeBloke |
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"Technology is neither good nor evil. Nor is it neutral."
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| 05-21-2020 08:24 PM |
Bobbi |
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AP hover to the left of them to display a slide arrow
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| 05-21-2020 08:24 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Gesichtman, that's ewww.
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| 05-21-2020 08:25 PM |
Phoenix |
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exactly how was the message delivered?
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| 05-21-2020 08:25 PM |
Me |
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@Ryan - software enginner... Kinda mandatory 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 08:25 PM |
Phoenix |
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asking @ Gesichtman
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| 05-21-2020 08:25 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Me, you're just making yourself MORE attractive, LOL!
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| 05-21-2020 08:26 PM |
Gesichtman |
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a biden aide warned me. trump is desperate
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| 05-21-2020 08:26 PM |
Phoenix |
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so you're radioactive
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| 05-21-2020 08:26 PM |
peacedream |
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I have, recently, been more active on twitter. Are there any privacy strategies that are particular for twitter participation?
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| 05-21-2020 08:26 PM |
AP |
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@ryan & nookie ... Found lil tab thingy. Thanks.
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| 05-21-2020 08:27 PM |
AP |
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Just very distracting.
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| 05-21-2020 08:27 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Thank you, peacedream. Got it.
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| 05-21-2020 08:27 PM |
Phoenix |
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I bet trump is desperate. I am thinking states will have to shut down again after numbers go up in a few weeks.
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| 05-21-2020 08:27 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Thanks for letting us know, AP.
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| 05-21-2020 08:28 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure!
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| 05-21-2020 08:28 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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If you sign a "public code of conduct" clause at your work, can they hold you to things that you do in private or at private clubs
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Or, as I learned in Steel Magnolias, "an ounce of pretention is worth a pound of manure."
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
Me |
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It's 1000x more important here. Nowadays you cannot truly delete anything about you
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Kim, good point!
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
Me |
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*about yourself
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
LOL @castaway!
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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just a question for the end
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
Mary |
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What about events that require identification for entering
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Yes, Kim - I have that one jotted down for later.
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| 05-21-2020 08:29 PM |
Ellia |
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Yes but many public events require you to disclose your legal identity in the form of an ID. So what about that?
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| 05-21-2020 08:30 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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My audio is muted, Vir.
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| 05-21-2020 08:30 PM |
Angela |
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it's always there Vir
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| 05-21-2020 08:30 PM |
Lady Lilith |
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Many clubs are private and require id with your legal name to attend, you cannot access without having your information recorded.
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| 05-21-2020 08:30 PM |
Ellia |
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Exactly Lady Lilith
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| 05-21-2020 08:30 PM |
Lady Lilith |
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Lol ditto Ellia 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 08:30 PM |
Ellia |
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And many clubs/venues will actually KEEP your identity on hand with the release form, often even linked to your FL profile or scene name.
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| 05-21-2020 08:30 PM |
Me |
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Spoiler alert - He will address that
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| 05-21-2020 08:31 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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I call this theme "the separation of kink and state".
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| 05-21-2020 08:31 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Google? Yikes!
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| 05-21-2020 08:31 PM |
april / monogamousslut13 |
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photos are so hard to do when you have tattoos!
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| 05-21-2020 08:31 PM |
Angela |
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lol Ryan
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| 05-21-2020 08:31 PM |
Angela |
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tattoos
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| 05-21-2020 08:31 PM |
Kora K. (she/her) |
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Ironically what sometimes protects us (legal names in clubs) also can infringe on our identity protection.
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| 05-21-2020 08:32 PM |
Phoenix |
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Can't wait till he talks of stuff I haven't thought of
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| 05-21-2020 08:32 PM |
Mistress K |
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also rings or jewelry as well
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| 05-21-2020 08:32 PM |
Lila B |
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April I was literally just thinking that, I have nine lol
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| 05-21-2020 08:32 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Phoenix, this is three parts, so there is a lot to go ver, from the basics on. *smiles*
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| 05-21-2020 08:32 PM |
CaramelR |
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what if your partner has easily identifiable features? even if your face isn't on your own page?
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| 05-21-2020 08:32 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Mistress K - Is that the Mistress K I know?
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| 05-21-2020 08:33 PM |
Mistress K |
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yup
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| 05-21-2020 08:33 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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Carmel - that's how I was recognized in public once. My husband shows his face, and people figured it out.
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| 05-21-2020 08:33 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Welcome to that chatroom!
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| 05-21-2020 08:33 PM |
Mistress K |
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👍
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| 05-21-2020 08:33 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Yes, our "outness" affects our partners.
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| 05-21-2020 08:34 PM |
CaramelR |
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yeah, that's what i thought. my partner has his face on Fet
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| 05-21-2020 08:34 PM |
Mary |
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What about events that require identification for entering? How safe is it for them to have that on file?
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| 05-21-2020 08:34 PM |
CaramelR |
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i have no face pics
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| 05-21-2020 08:34 PM |
Ellia |
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I mean... I can photoshop any tattoo off. 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 08:34 PM |
Phoenix |
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mine is only visible to friends on FL
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| 05-21-2020 08:34 PM |
Sass |
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I'm not concerned with being outted now, but it is something that has concerned me... being outted for something in the future for something I do now
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| 05-21-2020 08:34 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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there was a crazy story in the Washington Post. A restaurant critic took a photo of folks eating at a restaurant. He happened to catch a couple in the photo - a married man and the woman he was having an affair with. His wife saw it in the paper. Game over.
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| 05-21-2020 08:35 PM |
Phoenix |
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When Someone You Love Is Kinky - good read for beginners
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| 05-21-2020 08:35 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
MAry, we have your question, and will ask it during the Q&A/Discussion.
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| 05-21-2020 08:36 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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I put my first face pic on ever... well Ryan did a few days ago
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| 05-21-2020 08:36 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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@Phoenix - Vir will be returned every two weeks on Thursdays
May 21, 8PM ET
June 4, 8PM ET
June 18, 8PM ET
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| 05-21-2020 08:36 PM |
Phoenix |
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sweet
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| 05-21-2020 08:36 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Here's the link to that book mentioned just now:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005HZ6FH0/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
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| 05-21-2020 08:36 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Beauty_for_Ashes - yikes!!
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| 05-21-2020 08:37 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
I'm lucky. I've ben out for years. My parents know, my work is kink, and so on.
I still take certain steps locally, since Pet is socially and professionally not "out."
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| 05-21-2020 08:37 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Here's the Dating Kinky link where the replays will be posted eventually:
https://datingkinky.com/webinars/special-events/protecting-your-kink-identity/
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| 05-21-2020 08:37 PM |
Phoenix |
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booted from church not a problem for me!
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| 05-21-2020 08:37 PM |
Ellia |
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I feel like we need a risk assessment calculator... anyone wanna code this? ha
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| 05-21-2020 08:37 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Haha, for the record, Kim provided her full consent RE: her comment above.
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| 05-21-2020 08:38 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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haha, Ellia
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| 05-21-2020 08:38 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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well of couse!
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| 05-21-2020 08:38 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
LOL! Ellia!
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| 05-21-2020 08:38 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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I didn't mean to imply that Ryan outed me. Sorry if it sounded that way
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| 05-21-2020 08:38 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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You're fine. : ) I was being extra dramatic.
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| 05-21-2020 08:38 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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For effect.
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| 05-21-2020 08:39 PM |
Phoenix |
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rumination is kinda my jam
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| 05-21-2020 08:39 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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*eye roll* Mr. Grant
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| 05-21-2020 08:39 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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"ruminate" is a great verb
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| 05-21-2020 08:39 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
LOL @ Phoenix!
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| 05-21-2020 08:39 PM |
Lexy |
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This presentation is so well thought out and solid.
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| 05-21-2020 08:39 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Lexy x100! Yes.
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| 05-21-2020 08:39 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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I'm often an over-ruminator
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| 05-21-2020 08:40 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Glad you're enjoying it, Lexi - Vir is terrific!
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| 05-21-2020 08:40 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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yes it is. People who aren't plus members better be taking notes fast. I'm proably gonna watch it again
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| 05-21-2020 08:40 PM |
Mary |
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How does everyone decide when and how to reveal your real name to kinky aquantences/friends/potential partners? I don't use my real name at events, but eventually I feel like i should tell people so that I don't feel like I'm lying.
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| 05-21-2020 08:40 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Kim, this series will be available FREE, because it's important information. *smiles*
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| 05-21-2020 08:41 PM |
Angela |
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I'll be rewatching @Kim NJ Cole
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| 05-21-2020 08:41 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Mary, my "name" is Nookie.
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| 05-21-2020 08:41 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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Mary for me, to tell someone my whole real name, I'd do that if I felt comfortable inviting them to my actual home. If not, then no
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| 05-21-2020 08:41 PM |
Meep |
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Wow these are risks I never thought of before
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| 05-21-2020 08:41 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
My given name is Heather Claus (I'm out).
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| 05-21-2020 08:41 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
But I CHOOSE when to give that as I see fit. Both are true.
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| 05-21-2020 08:41 PM |
Ellia |
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That's kind of a complicated question Mary. It can depend on a LOT of factors.I don't think it's lying to use a scene name with anyone you don't have good reason to trust.
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Angela |
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isnt it great Nooki!
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Meep |
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Think of it as a nickname 🙂 That's what I do
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Angela |
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being out rocks
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Yes, Angela.
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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The way I look at it is, if you go to a club and someone is there who recognizes you, they are there too, so...
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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meep, great way of thinking about it 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Mistress K |
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i wish i could be
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
bella dev |
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I've accepted that if anyone from my vanilla life recognizes me, it's a case of mutually assured destruction. It took a long time for me to get comfortable with that.
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
It helps to spend MORE time with kinky people. To hear your name all the time. LOL! 😉
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| 05-21-2020 08:42 PM |
Me |
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Personally, I wouldn't recommend buying a kinky book through Amazon
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Phoenix |
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Now I'm picturing the Heather I know as kinky
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Mistress K |
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agreed NNJ. my cuck snd I have talked about that
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Meep |
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I'm on another site and I have a name there everyone calls me, and I've kinda accepted it as a second name 😉
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Ellia |
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I have a separate Amazon account for anything kinky.
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Angela |
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I know lots of people who use nicknames as scene names
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Meep |
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Ooh, smart idea, Ellia!
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Mary |
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I would love to be out, but going through a current custody battle makes it difficult.
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Angela |
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right @Nooki
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Sass |
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Yeah but there's a difference between just going to an event with friends and being spotted in drag by someone you don't want to know you that way
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Mistress K |
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mutually assured destruction is how we describe it too
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Good idea, Ellia! Smashwords is a good option for many as well. Non-Amazon. Or author sites (when they have it).
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| 05-21-2020 08:43 PM |
Me |
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@Ellia - Without your legal name/credit card info?
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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That's how I describe it as well, Mistress K.
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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that is smart, but because of prime, I use just one.... so last month, when my kids saw the "anal fidget spinner" that I'd ordered... that was awkward
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
You can use a gift card, Me.
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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agree @Sass
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
AP |
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website ...Don't do it at work or using work devices!!!
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
LOL @ Kim!
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Haha, Kim - it's a ring toss game, right?
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
Ellia |
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My CC isn't tied to it, as Nookie pointed out you can use gift cards to yourself.
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| 05-21-2020 08:44 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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: )
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
JustDame |
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ive had that happen and i was on my phone
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
Sass |
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I have no problem going to club events, but going up to perform by bottoming with a pro-Domme? Different story
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Yes, don't surf our website on work PCs, no matter how tempting!
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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: )
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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No, it's a butt plug fidget spinner that lights up.
Come a lil closer Ryan, and I'll show you just how it works. 😉
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
Ellia |
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Omg I need another phone now 😮
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
Mistress K |
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we actually ended up meeting someone from work at a kink meet and greet. ended up being a good experience
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
SiN13 |
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corporate networks are monitored and if not logs your internet history
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
Kash |
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lol ive broken all those rules at work
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| 05-21-2020 08:45 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Sass, sure. Everyone should choose their personal comfort zone.
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| 05-21-2020 08:46 PM |
Kash |
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and i work at a bank lol
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| 05-21-2020 08:46 PM |
Sass |
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I want to do it sometime though... it's just an example
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| 05-21-2020 08:46 PM |
Me |
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I mean, as long as you're still shipping to the same address, it's already tied to you.
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| 05-21-2020 08:46 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Yikes, Kash!
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| 05-21-2020 08:46 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I think I may be deleting all my photos 🙁
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| 05-21-2020 08:46 PM |
SomeBloke |
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I wouldn't go anywhere Amazon with a ten ft pole for anything.
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| 05-21-2020 08:47 PM |
Kash |
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no wonder that seeming submissive techie was looking at me like that 🤔
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| 05-21-2020 08:47 PM |
Meep |
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Yeah I'm thinking of the photos I have. It's just my feet, chest, and arm, but at the same time...
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| 05-21-2020 08:47 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Get all your DK books through DK! And support me directly! *grins*
I'll protect your privacy!
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| 05-21-2020 08:47 PM |
Ellia |
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LOL Nookie
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| 05-21-2020 08:47 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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omg, I sooo want to get a credit card with my pen name!!!
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| 05-21-2020 08:47 PM |
SomeBloke |
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It's not legal to own a credit card under a different name where I am.
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| 05-21-2020 08:47 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
And it's save money!
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| 05-21-2020 08:48 PM |
JustDame |
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i had a friend outed that lost her girl scout troop over it -- someone screenshotted a fet photo with her face in it :-/
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| 05-21-2020 08:48 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
*it'll
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| 05-21-2020 08:48 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Haha, Kim - the author expense card
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| 05-21-2020 08:48 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
JustDame, a dear friend of mine was outed and lost her substitute teaching position.
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| 05-21-2020 08:48 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Yes, I should think that the credit cards under different names are going to be region specific
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| 05-21-2020 08:48 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/books/
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| 05-21-2020 08:48 PM |
JustDame |
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(note: nothing on her fet had anything to do with her mothering or the troop or logos thereof)
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| 05-21-2020 08:49 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
I need to update that with the link to OTown that went up today (for PLUS members)!
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| 05-21-2020 08:49 PM |
Meep |
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Oh no, poor thing :'(
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| 05-21-2020 08:49 PM |
JustDame |
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@MissNookie that is so disheartening
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| 05-21-2020 08:49 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Mistress K - I'm glad that surprise meeting ended up being a positive experience.
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
QT |
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When is part 2?
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Yes, JustDame. It was a stalker of someone we new, trying to harm her friends, even.
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
Sass |
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an IT guy at my friend's old company found her FL and outted her and got her fired
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
SomeBloke |
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VPNS don't do anything for anonimity, only masking your IP address from your government/ISP.
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
Mistress K |
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yeah. could have gone sideways but theyve become pretty good friends
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
Meep |
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Oh my god
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
QT, two weeks from tonight.
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://holistic-security.tacticaltech.org/
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| 05-21-2020 08:50 PM |
QT |
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lit thank you.
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| 05-21-2020 08:51 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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One thing I would recommend: go on beenverified.com, get the $1 trial, then run searches on all your personal info. It taught me a lot about what info is out there on myself, and what wasn't showing up. I learned some of the privacy measures I have taken have WORKED! : )
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| 05-21-2020 08:51 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
YW
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| 05-21-2020 08:51 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009DP5P26/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
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| 05-21-2020 08:51 PM |
Phoenix |
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What are the legal consequences if caught in a BDSM act? I've heard if there are any marks left on the body, it can be considered assault. Is that true?
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| 05-21-2020 08:51 PM |
QT |
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@somebloke, so then it makes you private from your government...
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| 05-21-2020 08:51 PM |
JustDame |
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you can look yourself up on fastpeoplesearch.com
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| 05-21-2020 08:51 PM |
Meep |
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I wanted to throw out that librarians have a secrecy policy so they are legally forbidden to share your research with anyone else
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| 05-21-2020 08:52 PM |
Mistress K |
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the stalking aspect is the part that scares me. especially after having been interviewed for a couple of podcasts and now my twitter is going nuts
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| 05-21-2020 08:52 PM |
JustDame |
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I used to use it to find people for work when they werent in our systems
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| 05-21-2020 08:52 PM |
Meep |
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Libraries are awesome 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 08:52 PM |
Sass |
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Phoenix I think it depends on what state you live in... Minnesota is a non-consent state
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| 05-21-2020 08:52 PM |
Ellia |
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Yayyy thanks Vir!
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| 05-21-2020 08:52 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/plus-membership/
Sign up now at $5/month (in perpetuity)!
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
QT |
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Thank you Vir! This was an amazing workshop. Can't want for the next one.
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Meaning $5/month as long as you retain membership, if you sign up now.
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
Ellia |
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YES Plus is the it thing. 😉
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Wow, Quentin Tarantino in the webinar chat!
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Welcome, QT!
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Schweet.
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
Mistress K |
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definitely signing up after this
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
J-N-L |
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Australia! Yay! That's where I am
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| 05-21-2020 08:53 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/books/
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| 05-21-2020 08:54 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Yay, Mistress K!
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| 05-21-2020 08:54 PM |
Ellia |
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The new version ROCKS
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| 05-21-2020 08:54 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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im excited!
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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though, it really doesn't take much to get me excited... one well placed neck kiss and I'm pretty much mush
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
Ellia |
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Lol Kim
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
JustDame |
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<3
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
bella dev |
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thanks everyone. I have to leave early.
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
Lexy |
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I'm a member, but I think that really rocks that you welcome everyone,
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
SomeBloke |
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... and they'll tell two friends ...
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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or rope... show me rope and I kinda bend over
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| 05-21-2020 08:55 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://fetlife.com/users/6719747/statuses/26503449
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| 05-21-2020 08:56 PM |
CaramelR |
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yep
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| 05-21-2020 08:56 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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https://holistic-security.tacticaltech.org
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| 05-21-2020 08:56 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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@VirCotto on Fet
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| 05-21-2020 08:56 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Could we see the slide with the other book title please?
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| 05-21-2020 08:56 PM |
Alix |
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how does the Scooby Doo credit card help if we're tracked?
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| 05-21-2020 08:57 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Alix - I suspect that the alias shows up on the credit reports
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| 05-21-2020 08:57 PM |
Ellia |
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Alix the people who can track that stuff are law enforcement basically, so unless you're involved in something where they would be looking at your transaction history it's not that risky.
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| 05-21-2020 08:58 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Thanks for the book slide!
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| 05-21-2020 08:58 PM |
JustDame |
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yay
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| 05-21-2020 08:58 PM |
Mistress K |
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that sounded naughty
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| 05-21-2020 08:58 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
YW
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| 05-21-2020 08:58 PM |
Mistress K |
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😘
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| 05-21-2020 08:58 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Privacy for Twitter: Switch to Mastodon
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| 05-21-2020 08:59 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I use a separate kink gmail account, but is that risky in any way because it's google?
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| 05-21-2020 09:00 PM |
Kash |
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what VPN service do you reccommend? can I use 1 VPN for all my devices?
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| 05-21-2020 09:00 PM |
Amy |
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BEFORE you post a pic or fill out bio info on your new account, research privacy settings and get them turned on.
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| 05-21-2020 09:00 PM |
Ellia |
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N for all my devices?
Amy 21:00:06
BEFORE you post a pic or fill out bio info on your new account, research privacy settings and get them turned on.
AP, SomeBloke and some other are typing
Type a message
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| 05-21-2020 09:00 PM |
AP |
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Even with separate social media.... The problem is that they use facial recognition & other tracking means... right? Because I had a friend that had very separate accts for fetish modeling.
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| 05-21-2020 09:00 PM |
Mistress K |
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me too Miss D
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| 05-21-2020 09:00 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Google and Facebook: Own 80-90% of the web's tracker code. Source: whotracks.me
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| 05-21-2020 09:00 PM |
ReifyJoie and SaccharinePurr |
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NNJcuckCouple/Miss D: Yes, because Google tracks you and, through cookies, links your vanilla and kink identities. I have an entire OPSEC class on that.
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| 05-21-2020 09:01 PM |
CaramelR |
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a lot of social media sites (i.e., Facebook) track your off-site activity, too
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| 05-21-2020 09:01 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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thank you @ReifyJoie and Saccharin
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| 05-21-2020 09:01 PM |
Ellia |
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Oh geez
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| 05-21-2020 09:01 PM |
Lila B |
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What's the best way to deal with incredibly nosy roommates? They're like family, and they're not people I can come out to. Is there a way to better guard your kink identity from the people you live with?
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| 05-21-2020 09:01 PM |
AP |
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Any company affliated with Google or Facebk is a true problem if you value your privacy.
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| 05-21-2020 09:02 PM |
CaramelR |
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true
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| 05-21-2020 09:02 PM |
CaramelR |
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if you check your settings on Facebook, you'll be amazed at how many sites are submitting data on you
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| 05-21-2020 09:02 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Facebook was just charged in Canada for misleading statements around Privacy
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| 05-21-2020 09:02 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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so since google is out of the question, which email platform would you use...yahoo, or what do you suggest?
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| 05-21-2020 09:02 PM |
CaramelR |
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i don't think FetLife does that, but yeah
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| 05-21-2020 09:03 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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@Lila. I had roommates for a long time. Lock for your bedroom door. Keep stuff at someone else's house. And push back if they're nosy; you deserve privacy even if you aren't kinky.
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| 05-21-2020 09:03 PM |
ReifyJoie and SaccharinePurr |
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NNJcuck: protonmail.com
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| 05-21-2020 09:03 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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thanks @ReifyJoie and Saccharin ! appreciate it
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| 05-21-2020 09:03 PM |
ReifyJoie and SaccharinePurr |
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NNJcuck: ProtonMail is a favorite amongst sexworkers.
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| 05-21-2020 09:03 PM |
SomeBloke |
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I use protonmail for my email, with two passwords (zero-access encryption on my mailbox)
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| 05-21-2020 09:04 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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And in the future era of not-quite post covid, what are the reporting responsibilites of event hosts in the event that someone at the event later tests positive for Covid-19?
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| 05-21-2020 09:04 PM |
Ellia |
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Tried to attend an event in NC, asked about privacy policy regarding ID and where it's stored: "Well it's kept in a box in my home office."
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| 05-21-2020 09:04 PM |
AP |
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Just realize, that some alternate search engines are banned by companies. If you work for a company that bans these alt search engines, you can be fired for using them.
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| 05-21-2020 09:05 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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i went to a munch and they scanned drivers' licenses to get in. They do it because it's in a bar... but then there was a door prize and they were calling out people's legal names!
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| 05-21-2020 09:05 PM |
Alix |
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how can we learn about the google search? Can it search PMs?
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| 05-21-2020 09:05 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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can you tell us which kinky dating site that is searchable by Google?
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| 05-21-2020 09:05 PM |
Ellia |
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Omg Kim
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| 05-21-2020 09:05 PM |
CaramelR |
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yay...
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| 05-21-2020 09:05 PM |
AP |
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Being out via "guilt by association".
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| 05-21-2020 09:05 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Beauty_for_ashes CS.
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| 05-21-2020 09:06 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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My child was with me, my legally male child who is in the scene as a female... she was like.. if they call my real name, I'm just gonna look around like who the fuck is that...
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| 05-21-2020 09:06 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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Nookie: Thank you, think I know which one you mean. Collar ___ ?
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| 05-21-2020 09:06 PM |
CaramelR |
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got it
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| 05-21-2020 09:06 PM |
SomeBloke |
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*Zucked* by Roger McNamee and *The Surveilance Economy* by Shoshana Zuboff are good books to read on the insideous reach of FB, Amazon, Google and affiliates.
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| 05-21-2020 09:07 PM |
AP |
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Hussy... LMAO!
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| 05-21-2020 09:07 PM |
SomeBloke |
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collar_ doesn't even use HTTPS.
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| 05-21-2020 09:07 PM |
Phoenix |
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CS is a joke
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| 05-21-2020 09:07 PM |
Alix |
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thanks, I was assuming it was Fet
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| 05-21-2020 09:08 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Yes, BfA.
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| 05-21-2020 09:09 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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Vir, do you know much about the privacy of Fet? Is is searchable by someone who doesn't have an account? Any other vulnerabilities to be aware of?
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| 05-21-2020 09:09 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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thanks Nookie
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| 05-21-2020 09:09 PM |
SiN13 |
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I think that if this lifestyle is something that is a part of you just realize that there is always a potential for being identified
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| 05-21-2020 09:09 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
YW
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| 05-21-2020 09:10 PM |
Mistress K |
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same. for beginning kink events. Im now in the transition from my wallet name to my scene name.
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| 05-21-2020 09:11 PM |
pedro |
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I don't think using scene name is lying. Just about everyone in the "scene" accept the idea that ppl use scene naem
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| 05-21-2020 09:11 PM |
Kora K. (she/her) |
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Thank you to the organizers, participants and presenter for this event.
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| 05-21-2020 09:11 PM |
Mistress K |
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I'm oddly still very comfortable in my kink group, but im defintely transitioning my online name
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| 05-21-2020 09:12 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Kora, you are very welcome - so glad you came!
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| 05-21-2020 09:12 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Beauty_for_Ashes - FL isn't supposed to be searchable wiithout an account
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| 05-21-2020 09:12 PM |
peacedream |
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Thank you. This webinar has been very helpful.
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| 05-21-2020 09:12 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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RC, thanks, that is what I thought.
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| 05-21-2020 09:12 PM |
Lexy |
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I have a professional day job and I'm also a writer. I feel like my worlds are colliding (or about to). I feel like my only option is to reduce my social media presence and find a nice piece of land in the woods. is there no middle ground.
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| 05-21-2020 09:12 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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And for those that want to come back to part 2, we will be having it on June 4
https://datingkinky.com/events/
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| 05-21-2020 09:13 PM |
JustDame |
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I have had a friend for a decade who call me "dame" and their kids who didnt even speak when we met call me "aunt lady" since dame = lady
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| 05-21-2020 09:13 PM |
Ellia |
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Noooo Ryan
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| 05-21-2020 09:13 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Thanks for the HU, Ryan.
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| 05-21-2020 09:14 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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yw, Somebloke - that calendar will continuously update w/ new events.
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| 05-21-2020 09:14 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Schweet beans.
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| 05-21-2020 09:14 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Beauty_for_Ashes 20:51:05
One thing I would recommend: go on beenverified.com, get the $1 trial, then run searches on all your personal info. It taught me a lot about what info is out there on myself, and what wasn't showing up. I learned some of the privacy measures I have taken have WORKED! : )
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| 05-21-2020 09:14 PM |
Evosss |
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Thank you Nookie , Castaway and Vir Cotto for this wonderful workshop.
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| 05-21-2020 09:14 PM |
Mistress K |
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👍
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| 05-21-2020 09:15 PM |
ReifyJoie and SaccharinePurr |
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I also +1 beenverified.com. It's part of my OPSEC 101 class.
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| 05-21-2020 09:15 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Thank you, Evoss!
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| 05-21-2020 09:15 PM |
Mistress K |
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this is such good information
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| 05-21-2020 09:15 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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We love having you here, Mistress K.
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| 05-21-2020 09:16 PM |
Alix |
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laws likely vary by state
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| 05-21-2020 09:16 PM |
PunishMe/Bob |
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Doesn't someone have to make a complaint?
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| 05-21-2020 09:16 PM |
Alix |
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assault can be both a crime and a tort
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| 05-21-2020 09:16 PM |
PunishMe/Bob |
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Yuk!
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| 05-21-2020 09:16 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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And laws in different countries can be VERY different!
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| 05-21-2020 09:17 PM |
AP |
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Additionally, certain "toys" even owning them you can be charged.
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| 05-21-2020 09:17 PM |
pedro |
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Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast
081 - Lawyered and Side Tracked
Dick Wound and minimus maximus are joined by meanstreakmilewide to discuss BDSM and the law, this time from the perspective of a kinky lawyer.
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| 05-21-2020 09:17 PM |
JustDame |
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@punishMe nope! domestic violence laws have muddied the waters
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| 05-21-2020 09:17 PM |
SomeBloke |
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"consent" under duress clauses
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| 05-21-2020 09:17 PM |
Alix |
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I think non-consent issue is only for crime not for tort
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| 05-21-2020 09:17 PM |
Alix |
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not qualified to provide legal advice, not providing legal advice
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| 05-21-2020 09:18 PM |
april / monogamousslut13 |
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lady steele is great! saw her at KK
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| 05-21-2020 09:18 PM |
Mistress K |
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is there a website where we can search laws for our state?
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| 05-21-2020 09:18 PM |
pedro |
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A bit focused on NYS and NYC but still useful
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| 05-21-2020 09:18 PM |
Mistress K |
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or some kind of database
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| 05-21-2020 09:18 PM |
Andy |
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Very similar in the UK, anything beyond trivial marks is considered assault and you cannot consent to assault, but also IANAL
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| 05-21-2020 09:19 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://notcheating.com/#calendar/0216b11c-2bd7-47c4-b15a-e7f818918c33
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| 05-21-2020 09:19 PM |
Mistress K |
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yeah that bit with the military is true and a friend of a friend got in big triuble for swinging while in the military
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| 05-21-2020 09:19 PM |
ReifyJoie and SaccharinePurr |
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Misstress K: Just go to your state's official .gov Web site. The laws should be online there. Or, I forget the site, but if you Google for your-city-name "sexually oriented business" a law site will pop that has all the state and city laws.
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| 05-21-2020 09:19 PM |
Kash |
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FYI im on BeenVerified.com I cant see the dollar trial it says it is a monthly autorenew
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| 05-21-2020 09:19 PM |
Mistress K |
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👍thanks RJ SP
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| 05-21-2020 09:19 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I'm getting out of google, for sure!
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| 05-21-2020 09:19 PM |
Ellia |
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http://beenverified.com/
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| 05-21-2020 09:20 PM |
SomeBloke |
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DDG for the win!
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| 05-21-2020 09:20 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I've thought about this a long time..need to use something other than google. Will work on this tomorrow.
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| 05-21-2020 09:20 PM |
Bells |
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Mistress K https://ncsfreedom.org/ has a section of legal tips
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| 05-21-2020 09:20 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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For Beenverfied, my recollection is there is a trial and you can cancel it before there is a monthly charge.
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| 05-21-2020 09:20 PM |
Mistress K |
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👍
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| 05-21-2020 09:21 PM |
Kash |
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What is wrong with google voice?
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| 05-21-2020 09:21 PM |
Ellia |
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data collection
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| 05-21-2020 09:22 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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There are VPN options which ensure their servers are protected from law enforcement actions
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| 05-21-2020 09:22 PM |
Leadfingers |
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nothing..
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| 05-21-2020 09:22 PM |
SomeBloke |
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BIOS password as well.
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| 05-21-2020 09:22 PM |
pedro |
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Also related to law.
what to do if the police knock on your door
https://www.offthecuffs.org/057-a-prolific-dna-bukkake/
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| 05-21-2020 09:22 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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she may also be referring to roommates being nosy and looking at her "stuff"
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| 05-21-2020 09:23 PM |
pedro |
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This week, Dick Wound and minimus maximus are joined by IrishGentleman71, a former NYPD Sergeant, to discuss the toys we carry, CNC, and how to handle things if the cops show up at your door while you’re getting your kink on. Yikes!
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| 05-21-2020 09:23 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Thanks for the links, Pedro
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| 05-21-2020 09:23 PM |
Kash |
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@RandomCanadian any VPN suggestions?
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| 05-21-2020 09:24 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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fyi... hotel's call for "well checks"😠
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| 05-21-2020 09:24 PM |
pedro |
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YES you can swing a flogger
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| 05-21-2020 09:24 PM |
Lila B |
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Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. They mean well, but they do have a tendency to 'find' things... I'm just going to start locking the door.
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| 05-21-2020 09:24 PM |
SomeBloke |
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LoL. My ex's cats used to meow at her door. I thought that was bad ...
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| 05-21-2020 09:25 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/covid-19-replay/
Episode 1 w/ Dr Bad Kitty
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| 05-21-2020 09:25 PM |
Mistress K |
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castaway. will you private message me the offthecuffs link?
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| 05-21-2020 09:25 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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I sure will, Mistress K.
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| 05-21-2020 09:25 PM |
Sunset |
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Thank y'all for doing this webinar! Looking forward to future ones 🙂
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| 05-21-2020 09:25 PM |
Kash |
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is yahoo mail safe?
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| 05-21-2020 09:25 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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It's totally a big questions going forward!
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| 05-21-2020 09:26 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Thanks for coming, Sunset.
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| 05-21-2020 09:26 PM |
Mistress K |
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thanks!!
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| 05-21-2020 09:26 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Yahoo mail? Probably not. Their former security guy let the NSA in and then went to work for FB.
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| 05-21-2020 09:27 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Kash - Yahoo new terms and conditions say any they get rights to use any intelectual property transiiting their servers so I choose not to use it or message people who do use Yahoo
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| 05-21-2020 09:28 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I remember hearing this about Fetlife a while back
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| 05-21-2020 09:28 PM |
april / monogamousslut13 |
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omg, anyone can make a fake profile on fet - i got hit by one of those until i turned off follow & made everything friends only
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| 05-21-2020 09:28 PM |
Mistress K |
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my heart is breaking for some of the people i know that have venues and are having to make those decisions
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| 05-21-2020 09:28 PM |
AP |
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Yahoo mail just had a privacy issue where they are settling a class action lawsuit.
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| 05-21-2020 09:29 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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People can make a Fetlife profile just if they are curious..you can't prevent that
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| 05-21-2020 09:29 PM |
Mistress K |
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lol. I call Fetlife the kinky Facebook
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| 05-21-2020 09:29 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Kash - Security Now covers the better VPNs - grc.com/sn
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| 05-21-2020 09:30 PM |
Ellia |
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Yep. Super easy to use a burner app to verify phone on FL too.
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| 05-21-2020 09:30 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Baku's "reduce" tactics are more whack-a-mole than anything, because no banning based on IP address.
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| 05-21-2020 09:30 PM |
AP |
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Yahoo lawsuits goes back at least until 2012. Check your accts if you ever had a Yahoo acct.
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| 05-21-2020 09:30 PM |
CaramelR |
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@SomeBloke, good to know
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| 05-21-2020 09:30 PM |
Ellia |
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They claim that banning IP is pointless since people can just change theirs.
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| 05-21-2020 09:30 PM |
CaramelR |
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also true
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| 05-21-2020 09:31 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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SomeBloke - I feel that IP addresses are far too easy to change these days so hard to base a security strategy around them
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| 05-21-2020 09:32 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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they could always say, "I went once, and I thought it was disgusting... guess who was there!"
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| 05-21-2020 09:32 PM |
SomeBloke |
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@Ellia, yeah, but your average person probably doesn't. I don't (other than via VPN) and I'm pretty tech savvy.
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| 05-21-2020 09:32 PM |
pedro |
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Also they can send an anonymous email outing you
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| 05-21-2020 09:32 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/library-books-online-classes/dating-kinky-presents-dating-kinky/
Dating Kinky the book
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| 05-21-2020 09:32 PM |
AP |
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If you signed a contract with your employer that includes a "morality clause", you'll definitely want to review your privacy practices.
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| 05-21-2020 09:33 PM |
Kash |
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@RandomCanadian THANKS!
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| 05-21-2020 09:33 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Kash - you're most welcome!
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| 05-21-2020 09:33 PM |
Alix |
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caution when doing one's own legal research
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| 05-21-2020 09:34 PM |
AP |
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Most US states have "at will" employment.
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| 05-21-2020 09:34 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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That's true, AP.
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| 05-21-2020 09:34 PM |
ReifyJoie and SaccharinePurr |
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I found the law site with state and local laws: https://www.ecode360.com/ But I don't think you can search the site from the front page — you have to pay. But they're indexed by Google.
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| 05-21-2020 09:34 PM |
Ellia |
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Morality clauses are part of almost every contract for healthcare professionals.
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| 05-21-2020 09:35 PM |
Phoenix |
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at will is a scam but you have to comply if you want a job
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| 05-21-2020 09:35 PM |
SomeBloke |
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If it's free, you're the product, not the customer.
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| 05-21-2020 09:35 PM |
SomeBloke |
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I don't trust Verizon, for the reasons stated.
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| 05-21-2020 09:36 PM |
John |
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in your opinion, how safe is sharing cell phone number?
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| 05-21-2020 09:36 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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John, sharing w/ whom?
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| 05-21-2020 09:36 PM |
AP |
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Question...? Maybe for one of the other sections.... What about smart home & assistant devices like Alexxa, Google Home, Siri, Ring, etc.?
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| 05-21-2020 09:36 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Can you elaborate?
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| 05-21-2020 09:36 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Yahoo and AOL services operate under Verizon Media TOS
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| 05-21-2020 09:36 PM |
ReifyJoie and SaccharinePurr |
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John — No. Your mobile provider sells your customer data to sites like BeenVerified.com. BeenVerified.com has my real name linked to my vanilla, kink, and work numbers.
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| 05-21-2020 09:37 PM |
Mistress K |
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john. i never share my cell
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| 05-21-2020 09:37 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Alexxa reports to the NSA.
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| 05-21-2020 09:37 PM |
Phoenix |
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please say advertisements again =)
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| 05-21-2020 09:37 PM |
Kash |
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On a budget and in the interest of securing my privacy what is the most secure cell phone provider? Tmobile? MetroPCS? Should I renounce apple and android products all together?
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| 05-21-2020 09:37 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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I don't share my cell number unless I trust them becasue you can run it and get my real name
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| 05-21-2020 09:37 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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I have a Google Voice number that i shaer
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| 05-21-2020 09:37 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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A google voice number is free
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| 05-21-2020 09:38 PM |
Mistress K |
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same Beauty. and im
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| 05-21-2020 09:38 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Nookie does do the old school "advertisements" enunciation.
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| 05-21-2020 09:38 PM |
Mistress K |
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careful who i give that to
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| 05-21-2020 09:38 PM |
Kash |
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I date with a google voice number and yahoo mail and kik
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| 05-21-2020 09:38 PM |
Phoenix |
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oh I'm not making fun, I thought it was cool
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| 05-21-2020 09:39 PM |
Kash |
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when i trust the person i move them to the signal app
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| 05-21-2020 09:39 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I thought google voice is not safe to have either...since it's google
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| 05-21-2020 09:39 PM |
SiN13 |
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That sounds impossilbe in today's age
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| 05-21-2020 09:39 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Yikes, Kash!
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| 05-21-2020 09:39 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Signal's a good one.
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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What is Signal?
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
Kash |
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@SomeBloke
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I don't trust Alexa
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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Signal is a chat app
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
Kash |
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what? what? what did i do?
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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Don't want it
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
Mistress K |
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talk to me about kik
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| 05-21-2020 09:40 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Ring does surveillance for the police.
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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If you ask questions from this point on, I will make sure they get answered at the top of Q&A in Episode 2.
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Mistress K - we'll ask about Kik in the next episode on June 4th.
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
Lila B |
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I have to run, but thank you so much for this webinar and answering my question. It was really solid and informative. Everyone have a great one, see you next time!
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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shhhh
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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you are freaking my alexa out!
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
Ellia |
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Unfortunately, all the things that protect us will also protect stalkers, criminals, etc. That freaks me out too.
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Signal's a messaging app from Open Whisper, for Android and iPhone.
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Lila - thank you for coming!
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| 05-21-2020 09:41 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I want to know about KIK too Mistress K..I heard it's risky..someone who used it had their phone cotacts see their screen name for kik..so I've heard
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
Mistress K |
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👍
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
Rockpebble58 |
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Thank you all for the program. It was very informative.
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
SiN13 |
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Alexa is recording my flogging activities, oh my!
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
SomeBloke |
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KiK: Provider holds the encryption keys. avoid.
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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Alexa would blush in my house lol
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
Mistress K |
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ive not heard that!
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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it's a good step Nookie. We had that when we were on staff at our BDSM club
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| 05-21-2020 09:42 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Haha, Miss D.
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| 05-21-2020 09:43 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Yep, I am signing my NDA this weekend.
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| 05-21-2020 09:43 PM |
Ellia |
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I turn Alexa off sometimes... I'm afraid she's listening!
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| 05-21-2020 09:43 PM |
Kash |
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good to know about kik
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| 05-21-2020 09:43 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I don't know how accurate it is (about kik), but that's what I've heard. I want to try using it but when I hear that, I can't risk it
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| 05-21-2020 09:43 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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It was my job to check liscences to see if the person registered. I worked hard not to remember their real names because I never wanted to mess up and call a person by any name other than what they introduced themselves to me as
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| 05-21-2020 09:44 PM |
SomeBloke |
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@Ellia. Good. You should turn off Alexa, permanently.
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| 05-21-2020 09:44 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Apple are good on privacy. Android isn't.
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| 05-21-2020 09:44 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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@Kim - yes totally! It's a skill to NOT see/remember that info!
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| 05-21-2020 09:44 PM |
thelastcandle |
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As someone completly new to dating kinky, your stance on security is incredibly respectable from what ive heard so far.
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| 05-21-2020 09:45 PM |
Kash |
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Thank you for the informative workshop!!!
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| 05-21-2020 09:45 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Thank you, thelastcandle. I'm doing my best, as I learn and grow. *smiles*
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| 05-21-2020 09:45 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
You're welcome, Kash.
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| 05-21-2020 09:45 PM |
SiN13 |
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Actually your phone is a treasure trove of infromation.
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| 05-21-2020 09:45 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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Thank you so much, this was very informative. I'm changing my email tomorrow lol. Thanks, Nookie, Ryan, and Vir!
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| 05-21-2020 09:45 PM |
SomeBloke |
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If you really want a good phone, use e.foundation or pine phone.
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| 05-21-2020 09:45 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Very welcome, Miss D!
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| 05-21-2020 09:46 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Vir, Nookie's and my Fet profile pages:
https://fetlife.com/users/4718001
https://fetlife.com/users/50648
https://fetlife.com/users/811057
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| 05-21-2020 09:46 PM |
Angela |
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thanks so much guys! have a good night!
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| 05-21-2020 09:46 PM |
SiN13 |
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Did a digital forensics internship for a law enforcement agency and everything under one roof
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| 05-21-2020 09:46 PM |
Mistress K |
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we just all need to turn into Ron Swanson. 🤣🤣
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| 05-21-2020 09:46 PM |
Miss Nookie |
outsideservices@datingkinky.com |
Ta, Angela!
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| 05-21-2020 09:47 PM |
Me |
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Privacy firefox for phones
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| 05-21-2020 09:47 PM |
Mistress K |
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flip phones for everyone!
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| 05-21-2020 09:47 PM |
SiN13 |
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lol
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| 05-21-2020 09:47 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://datingkinky.com/plus-membership/
https://datingkinky.com/events/
https://notcheating.com/
https://www.shaysavage.com/
https://fetlife.com/users/1553228
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| 05-21-2020 09:47 PM |
Ellia |
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Noooo Mistress K! Worst nightmare ever.
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| 05-21-2020 09:47 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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I'll go back to my Motorola Startak lol
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| 05-21-2020 09:47 PM |
SomeBloke |
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700 USD phone? Crisis! You Yanks have money to burn!
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| 05-21-2020 09:48 PM |
AP |
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Startac??? You're dating us. Bleh. Lol.
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| 05-21-2020 09:48 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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sorry @AP, I'm that old lol
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| 05-21-2020 09:48 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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Many phones cost $500+ but are subsidized by your provider.
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| 05-21-2020 09:48 PM |
Mistress K |
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thanks a bunch everyone!
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| 05-21-2020 09:48 PM |
AP |
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@SomeBloke ... New Apple phones are over $1000 USD.
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
Mary |
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This was so informative and helpful!! Thank you so much!!!
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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OMG!
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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that's sooo pretty!
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
Vir Cotto |
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Marv Thanks! I hope you attend the next one!
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Flipping hell, @Vir. Mine cost me 800 in my local currency, which is about a tenth as strong as yours.
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
Ellia |
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Thank you Vir Cotto!! <3
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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Thanks Vir!
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
AP |
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When is next privacy module?
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| 05-21-2020 09:49 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Ah, CrApple. Makes sense.
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| 05-21-2020 09:50 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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June 4th, AP
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| 05-21-2020 09:50 PM |
Beauty_for_Ashes |
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Thank you, Vir. So appreciate this.
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| 05-21-2020 09:50 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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May 21, 8PM ET
June 4, 8PM ET
June 18, 8PM ET
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| 05-21-2020 09:50 PM |
april / monogamousslut13 |
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yay!!! exciting to hear!
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| 05-21-2020 09:50 PM |
AP |
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Next just cApple... newer Samsung devices are over $1000 too now. Ugh!
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| 05-21-2020 09:50 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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https://notcheating.com/#calendar/26d841c8-af94-4ea5-9f4b-e206878bd9e9
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| 05-21-2020 09:50 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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you go April!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
castaway (Ryan) |
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Yay April!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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Yup we got two Sam Sung S10 in USA for $1,000 each ($2,000 total)!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
Ellia |
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Nookie is about to turn into a pumpkin
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
Kim NJ Cole |
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omg.. so now Nookie will sleep in until like 5:00 am
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
RICH Stephen NJ |
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Thank You to "All" /(Love it).
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
april / monogamousslut13 |
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thank you - looking forward to seeing more of you again on the 13th!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Well, I bought myself a functional phone and didn't look back.
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
SiN13 |
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👋
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
RandomCanadian |
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👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
AP |
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Thank you Vir!!!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
Ellia |
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LOL Kim!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
Kash |
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🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
purplepixie |
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👋👋👋
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
NNJcuckCouple/Miss D |
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Thanks again Nookie, Ryan, and Vir. This was great..very informative!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
Angela |
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👏👏👏
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
Kim |
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Thank you Vir and Nookie and Ryan for hosting, this was really informative and I can't wait for the next session!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
Ellia |
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Thanks soooo much Vir! You're awesome!
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| 05-21-2020 09:51 PM |
RICH Stephen NJ |
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Looking forward to Future Events.
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
kittykatz77 |
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👋👋👋
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
Bobbi |
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THANK YOU SO MUCH VIR AND NOOKIE AND RYAN!!
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
Alix |
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👋👋👋
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
Me |
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:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
SomeBloke |
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Thank you, Nookie, Vir and Ryan, for your time.
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
Kelly (boundkel) |
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👍 great info - thanks!!
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
kittykatz77 |
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Thank you for my first experience on this site.
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
SapioScorpio |
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Thanks so much! This has been great!
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
SiN13 |
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Thank you everyone
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| 05-21-2020 09:52 PM |
Ellia |
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Goodnight all!
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