Date User Email Message Moderation author Moderation message
06-18-2020 07:43 PM Ryan (castaway) I'm eating, so haven't dialed in yet. : )
06-18-2020 07:43 PM Ryan (castaway) Haha, I remember this
06-18-2020 07:51 PM Katiebebee Hi everyone
06-18-2020 07:51 PM Bad Bear hello hello
06-18-2020 07:52 PM Ryan (castaway) Hi everyone! Can you all hear Nookie?
06-18-2020 07:52 PM Katiebebee yes
06-18-2020 07:52 PM Ellia yeap
06-18-2020 07:53 PM Bad Bear is beta dating up and running or still programming?
06-18-2020 07:53 PM NnjCuckCouple/MissDforBBC Hello there!
06-18-2020 07:54 PM NnjCuckCouple/MissDforBBC sounds like NJ non-accent
06-18-2020 07:54 PM Ellia It's not up yet Bad Bear, but we're close!
06-18-2020 07:54 PM Reign Hello
06-18-2020 07:54 PM Dean Hi
06-18-2020 07:55 PM Ellia Heya Vir! Hope you're well. 🙂
06-18-2020 07:55 PM Vir Cotto Hiya Ellia
06-18-2020 07:56 PM Ellia i think you should sing more often Nookie. LOL
06-18-2020 07:56 PM Ellia Singing < talking
06-18-2020 07:56 PM Ellia I know none of these songs. 🙁
06-18-2020 07:57 PM Sass hello
06-18-2020 07:57 PM Vir Cotto Hi Sass
06-18-2020 07:57 PM Ellia Hi Sass
06-18-2020 07:57 PM Ellia Ryannnnnn
06-18-2020 07:58 PM PunishMe/Bob Hi folks!
06-18-2020 07:59 PM PunishMe/Bob Oh but it can be fun!
06-18-2020 07:59 PM J-N-L I heard they also purchased Porn companies too
06-18-2020 07:59 PM New2kf Good evening all. Thank you for the wonderful classes.
06-18-2020 07:59 PM Ellia That could be an interesting meme
06-18-2020 07:59 PM J-N-L Yes
06-18-2020 08:00 PM Zero I've heard Elsa from Frozen is modeled on Elsa Jean
06-18-2020 08:01 PM Rae Should I be able to hear something?
06-18-2020 08:01 PM Sass Yes Rae
06-18-2020 08:01 PM Ryan (castaway) Hi Rae - are you using phone or laptop.
06-18-2020 08:01 PM Vir Cotto Rae - yes 🙂
06-18-2020 08:01 PM Ryan (castaway) ?
06-18-2020 08:02 PM Caramel R the first one
06-18-2020 08:02 PM Ryan (castaway) Please try refreshing, and that doesn't work - try a different browser.
06-18-2020 08:02 PM Caramel R lol
06-18-2020 08:03 PM Bella Dev Hi everyone
06-18-2020 08:03 PM Me If you're somewhat tech savvy, check your browser's privacy definitions, make sure webrtc is enabled
06-18-2020 08:03 PM Goddess Coko Hello
06-18-2020 08:03 PM afunmonkey hello everyone
06-18-2020 08:03 PM Sass Hi Bella
06-18-2020 08:03 PM Missy608 HI!
06-18-2020 08:03 PM Sass Hi Goddess Coko
06-18-2020 08:03 PM Sass Hello Missy
06-18-2020 08:04 PM J-N-L While we have tijme - how will the proposed changes to Section 230 impact people outside the USA? https://fetlife.com/groups/153026/posts/16533525
06-18-2020 08:07 PM Ryan (castaway) solar plexus
06-18-2020 08:07 PM AP Boo... We want more content!
06-18-2020 08:07 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com LOL! Indeed!
06-18-2020 08:08 PM Ryan (castaway) "Can't Get Enought of Your Content" is my favorite Barry White song.
06-18-2020 08:09 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com *groans*
06-18-2020 08:09 PM Ellia Ryan how do you have a song for * everything* ?? LOL
06-18-2020 08:09 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com That's A LOT of data!
06-18-2020 08:09 PM BFA Are the slides supposed to be showing? I don't see anything.
06-18-2020 08:10 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Yes. Are you on mobile, BFA?
06-18-2020 08:10 PM BFA on laptop
06-18-2020 08:10 PM Ryan (castaway) BFA - what device are you using?
06-18-2020 08:11 PM BFA laptop, Firefox
06-18-2020 08:11 PM BFA I refreshed and it didn't help
06-18-2020 08:12 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Can you try another browser?
06-18-2020 08:12 PM Ellia Chrome is the best browser for the software if you have it
06-18-2020 08:13 PM BFA Chrome isn't showing them either
06-18-2020 08:14 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com BFA, this is just a browser code. There is no tech support we can really do. The system is working fine on multiple browsers here. I can't iamgine what might be happening. The best I can suggest is to listen, then check the recording for the visuals, or downloading the slide deck when posted.
06-18-2020 08:15 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Is your window as wide as it can be?
06-18-2020 08:16 PM BFA thank you, appreciate you trying to troubleshoot
06-18-2020 08:16 PM BFA I will look at the recording later and the slide document
06-18-2020 08:16 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com WIsh I could do more. We've never had this particular issue before.
06-18-2020 08:17 PM BFA no problem. yes, window is as wide as it can be.
06-18-2020 08:17 PM BFA I see the slide count -- I see we're on slide 11, but it's just a big white box, just FYI
06-18-2020 08:18 PM Ryan (castaway) BFA, can you take a screenshot of what you are seeing and email it to cs.datingkinky.com (and CC: ryan@datingkinky.com)? Not saying we will have a solution, because, as Nookie points out, the interface is (on paper) deliberately simple. But, at the very least, it would be useful for us to have a visual on hand.
06-18-2020 08:18 PM AP Don't try to be the Community's Public Relations person by doing interviews with news agencies.
06-18-2020 08:19 PM BFA sure, happy to!
06-18-2020 08:19 PM Ryan (castaway) ty!
06-18-2020 08:22 PM AP @Vir Cotto ... On occasion, you are breaking up.
06-18-2020 08:22 PM Ellia Not having issues here AP
06-18-2020 08:24 PM Ryan (castaway) Vir has been clear as a bell for me.
06-18-2020 08:25 PM BFA just sent the screen shot
06-18-2020 08:25 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Thank you.
06-18-2020 08:26 PM Ryan (castaway) thanks, BFA
06-18-2020 08:27 PM BFA YW!
06-18-2020 08:27 PM Zero <3
06-18-2020 08:27 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Shout out to Zero! *smiles*
06-18-2020 08:28 PM Zero Oh lord, people love to play rules lawyer
06-18-2020 08:28 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com LOL!
06-18-2020 08:29 PM BFA I can see the slides now! So funny.
06-18-2020 08:29 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com YAY!
06-18-2020 08:32 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Check, check, check, check, check! Woohoo!
06-18-2020 08:32 PM Ryan (castaway) hi Zero!
06-18-2020 08:32 PM Ryan (castaway) Haha, glad to hear that, BFA.
06-18-2020 08:32 PM Caramel R so now that some spaces are reopening, what policies should organizers and venues put in place to aid COVID--19 contact tracing while protecting the kink identities of both cases and contacts?
06-18-2020 08:38 PM Zero @Caramel HIPAA law still applies to contact tracers. Attendees should be aware that tracing may be required, but by law the info stops at the tracer
06-18-2020 08:41 PM Ryan (castaway) Here's the link to Vir's group: https://fetlife.com/groups/205821
06-18-2020 08:42 PM Kim My question is... a local bar that has a "Munch" and I say "munch" like that because it's weekly and they allow light play and there is drinking, so I don't really think of it as a munch. Anyway, they scan your driver's license and apparently it checks for warrants. Does that mean the police know I'm there? I wonder what kind of list I'm on.
06-18-2020 08:44 PM Freya what about the privacy on discord?
06-18-2020 08:47 PM Bad Bear omg
06-18-2020 08:49 PM Zero and we thank you for that!
06-18-2020 08:50 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com https://datingkinky.com/plus-membership/
06-18-2020 08:51 PM Ellia My question is... a local bar that has a "Munch" and I say "munch" like that because it's weekly and they allow light play and there is drinking, so I don't really think of it as a munch. Anyway, they scan your driver's license and apparently it checks for warrants. Does that mean the police know I'm there? I wonder what kind of list I'm on.
06-18-2020 08:52 PM J-N-L With Password Managers - what if the Password Manager's (company / organisation) database is hacked / leaked?
06-18-2020 08:56 PM AP In regards to contact tracing ... I'm also guessing that it'll depend on the current laws & restrictions. We really don't need the attention saying that "those dirty & badkinksters" are spreading the virus & making it worse. If the local/state restrictions say no more than 10-15 people, or not hanging out with those outside your household, then you might be forfeiting your privacy so that the health dept can proceed to track where the virus originated & where it went after an event.
06-18-2020 08:57 PM mira favorite online meeting sites for kink events?
06-18-2020 08:57 PM Caramel R @AP agreed
06-18-2020 08:57 PM Bad Bear ive had my roboform data hacked! it was a pain in the ass.
06-18-2020 08:58 PM NnjCuckCouple/MissDforBBC oh no @Badbear, I've used roboform for years. I guess it's not safe?
06-18-2020 08:59 PM Caramel R i recently completed the contract tracing course with JHU. what i understand is that in being tested and having a confirmed positive test, you will be required to identifying people you've been in contact with during the time you were contagious
06-18-2020 08:59 PM Bad Bear safe now but version 7 had holes
06-18-2020 08:59 PM Caramel R and if were at an event while you were contagious, you may not know who you were in contact with
06-18-2020 08:59 PM NnjCuckCouple/MissDforBBC ah I see...thanks
06-18-2020 08:59 PM BFA Do you have a recommendation for an alternative to Discord to host a group of 50ish kinksters who want to have a persistent chat group? Signal? Although I am not sure that Signa's interface would work well for that large a group.
06-18-2020 09:00 PM AP Yeop
06-18-2020 09:00 PM Caramel R and you may not know the legal names of who you've been contact with, so i'm thinking it will be left to the organizers to provide the information for who was in attendance
06-18-2020 09:00 PM Caramel R just my line of thinking for this
06-18-2020 09:02 PM New2kf Thank you so much Miss Nookie and Vir Cotto. Nice evening.
06-18-2020 09:03 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Thank you, New2kf!
06-18-2020 09:03 PM Reina's slave Hey Vir! Great presentation. Question: What are your thoughts ith regards to IT volunteers and FOSTA, in particular if a group has SIGs for sex workers or there is a possibility of sex work being "facilitated" through a group's services.
06-18-2020 09:04 PM Kim Thank you sooo much 🙂
06-18-2020 09:04 PM Zero it did like 2 years ago
06-18-2020 09:05 PM Reina's slave FOSTA is currently under appeal
06-18-2020 09:05 PM Zero THis is Aurora hijacking ZEro's keyboard - the banking bill?
06-18-2020 09:06 PM AP There was a bar that opened on Memorial weekend in the Ozarks & they used cell phone data to track & trace people (who was at the bar & in the area AND where they went afterwards).... to date they've tracked down 2 people who have tested positive for C-19. https://www.ky3.com/content/news/Company-uses-cell-phone-data-to-show-where-Lake-of-the-Ozarks-Memorial-Day-partiers-returned-to-570967631.html
06-18-2020 09:06 PM Sass Thank you everyone, have a wonderful night. Thank you Miss Nookie. Great series Vir Cotto!
06-18-2020 09:06 PM AP If we have large gatherings (at least right now), this is what will happen.
06-18-2020 09:06 PM Ellia Have a great night Sass!
06-18-2020 09:06 PM Kim Nookie's book, Dating Kinky made me realize that my actual name is connected to my website.. I need to learn how to hide that
06-18-2020 09:06 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com Good night, Sass.
06-18-2020 09:08 PM Zero Still Aurora: YES. Forcing sex workers to pretend not to be offering commercial services obfuscates people's intentions, and what do we say about not communicating clearly and honestly?
06-18-2020 09:09 PM Reina's slave Earn IT
06-18-2020 09:09 PM Zero HR 2219?
06-18-2020 09:09 PM Vir Cotto ++ EARN IT! THANK YOU
06-18-2020 09:10 PM Bad Bear highly recommended
06-18-2020 09:10 PM Reina's slave A P.O. Box works well for that too
06-18-2020 09:10 PM Kim thanks 🙂
06-18-2020 09:11 PM Zero This is Aurora, but Zero agrees!
06-18-2020 09:11 PM Caramel R @AP i missed that, but yes, there are a lot of apps being developed or already released that alert you when you are within 6 feet of someone who has symptoms of or who have tested positive for COVID-19
06-18-2020 09:11 PM Zero 🙂
06-18-2020 09:13 PM Miss Nookie outsideservices@datingkinky.com https://fetlife.com/groups/205821
06-18-2020 09:13 PM AP Already joined
06-18-2020 09:14 PM J-N-L I joined the FL group moments before Nookie posted it the 1st time
06-18-2020 09:14 PM Kim even clothing... I see a person not show a face shot, but their company name is on their shirt
06-18-2020 09:15 PM AP We're just "digesting" all the info!
06-18-2020 09:15 PM Bad Bear moron
06-18-2020 09:15 PM Selena they also sexually harassed her
06-18-2020 09:16 PM AP Where's my DK shirt then? Lol.
06-18-2020 09:16 PM Kim im with ya AP
06-18-2020 09:16 PM Ellia So... no doing cam girl shows with DK shirt on huh? Dang.
06-18-2020 09:17 PM AP LMAO!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Dean I want a DK shirt too!!!!!!!!!!!!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Ellia Thanks so much Vir 🙂
06-18-2020 09:18 PM BFA thanks again for this! and thanks Vir for starting the Fet group.
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Kim i think we get a shirt for coming to them all
06-18-2020 09:18 PM AP @Vir ... If we do end up with more questions ... Can we do a follow up?
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Kim that was on the sign... 😉
06-18-2020 09:18 PM NnjCuckCouple/MissDforBBC thank you all so much!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Dean and what about stickers!!!!!!!!!!!!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Kim thank you so much Vir!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Reign Thank you!!!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM AP THANK YOU VIR !!!!!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Bella Dev Applause! Huge thanks, Vir.
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Reina's slave Thanks! Good Job!
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Zero *standing ovation*
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Dean clap,clap,clap,clap
06-18-2020 09:18 PM BFA 👋
06-18-2020 09:18 PM SiN13 👋
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Kim 👋👋👋👋
06-18-2020 09:18 PM BFA I've already done several things from Vir's reccs
06-18-2020 09:18 PM Dean 👍👍💪👋🙂
06-18-2020 09:18 PM afunmonkey Vir you thank
06-18-2020 09:18 PM J-N-L Vir Cotto - Thanks for educating us !!!
06-18-2020 09:19 PM Selena Thank you sooo much!!