As an interesting aside, when looking for the EXACT words from this little ditty, I discovered that there are quite a few variations.
Perhaps this is less a debate than a discussion, because I see both sides, but let’s shoulder on, here. Continue reading “Let’s Debate: “…But Words Will Never Hurt Me.””
Content warning: r^pe mentioned.
When I post these debates, I often don’t have an opinion, and I say so.
In this case I do, and I will say so. First, though, I’ll present the idea and the two sides as I see them. I’ll likely do this imperfectly. Just a warning.
Biphobia and switchphobia are not really “fears,” per se, but a pattern of beliefs that makes people less likely to find those who identify as bisexual or as a switch desirable.
There are many reasons/excuses, and some are similar for both bisexuality and switching, while some are different. Continue reading “Let’s Debate: Bi- And Switch-Phobia”
I watched this video a few months back, and it gave a different side to the Cinderella story—one that shows Cinderella as strong, capable, and authentic.
What do you think?
Is Cinderella a good role model for girls because of her persistence in the face of adversity, or is she just a meek, timid woman waiting for the white knight (prince) to rescue her?
I’ve been hearing this idea for a while, and when I saw in my calendar today that this was my topic, I thought, “Of course!”
Because I’ve been having several conversations about just this recently, with a variety of people.
The Dating World Hates Men
I read this a few months back, which is what inspired this writing:
“I’m a guy and I don’t get attention, but women do.” Guys. Welcome to the dating world. It sucks. It’s biased. And it hates us.
Women will ALWAYS receive a much larger interest than us men. Why? Because they’re women. I don’t mean that in a sexist kind of way, I mean it in a societal kind of way. Guys want more, guys see a woman and immediately jump at the chance to be by their side. Guy are guys.
Which kinda made me puke a bit in the back of my mouth. Continue reading “Let’s Debate: Does The Dating World Hate Men?”
I read this article A few months ago:
8 Lies I Tell My Husband (That Actually Make Our Marriage Stronger): Sometimes lying is far kinder than telling the absolute truth.
I also read the comments that went with it in the post I saw on FB, and they were sharply divided on whether or not she was doing the right thing.
If you don’t feel like reading the whole article, she justified the following lies:
1. “The sex was mind-blowing.”
It’s a “lie back and leave him to it” sort of situation… Marital harmony is worth a few white lies about his sexual prowess. Continue reading “Let’s Debate: Is This OK?”