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Why Dating Kinky?

Hi! Welcome to DatingKinky.com, the new dating and connections site for kinksters, built by a kinkster (NookieNotes) FOR kinksters! So, what’s so great about Dating Kinky? Well, A LOT! And we’re not just bragging here, but we think we’re pretty damn awesome. For example…

  • Nine gender options
  • 40+ kink roles (dom, sub, top, bottom, primal, spanko, kinkster, exploring…)
  • Easy one-click Decline & Block
  • One-on-one chat: text, audio, video
  • Group chat on kink topics
  • And more!

Oh wait… the BIG ONE: Dating Kinky is FREE! *smiles*

Totes free. Yeah. We offer support accounts, with some perks, and appreciate those who help us that way, however, MOST people will never pay a dime. And that’s cool. We love you and want you to find you kinky play/love/sexy times matches whether you pay or not!


It’s My World. You’re Just Living In It

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! “perceptual information is shaped by natural selection to reflect utility, not to depict reality.” (source) Donald H. Hoffman, professor of cognitive science at the University of California, Irvine, suggests that not only do we all perceive reality differently, but that it’s natural and necessary that we …

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