Kink Done Differently

Kink Done Differently

Built by kinksters for kinksters, poly, queer, trans folk, and anyone not-quite-vanilla—and it’s FREE.

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PLUS Membership

PLUS Membership

Dating Kinky is all about connecting you to other kinksters and giving you the tools and education to make the most of those connections.

We’re designed to be different.

Everything we do on our dating site is focused on two things:

Connecting you and consent (giving you control over your online experience). 

PLUS Membership is a great way to show your support of Dating Kinky and to access to AMAZING content!

With 9 books, three online classes, and over 250 webinar replays (that’s nearly 400 hours of kinky education), PLUS Membership is an amazing deal.

As a PLUS Member, you also get access to amazing features, like voice and video chat.

AND you become a valued member of our community, which is growing fast!


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