What's different about DK?
We Don't "Other" You.
What's different about DK?
Be YOU— No Judgment!
What's different about DK?
We Care—No, Really!
History & Roadmap
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Really? FREE Kinky Dating?
Well, nothing is ever free. SOMEONE always pays. So, who pays for Dating Kinky, since we're FREE to use? I say that Dating Kinky is "built by kinksters for kinksters, poly, queer, trans folk, and anyone not-quite-vanilla—and it’s FREE." And I mean it. It's not free to everyone, though. Some people will pay.
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The Red Flag Diaries
How Do They Respond To Your First "No"? An overreaction to a "No" is rarely itself going to be dangerous. At least not the first time. It's just a warning that things may become perilous moving forward. Emotionally, physically.
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Dear Poly Partner…
I need to get something off my chest. I told you not to cancel with [YOUR OTHER PARTNER] because I never want to be resented for forcing your hand. Because I don’t want [YOUR OTHER PARTNER] to feel like I do when I get second place on a double booking...
