Dating and assumptions don’t mix.

Dating and assumptions don’t mix.

One of the challenges of being a kinky dater is the number of assumptions made.

  1. If you’re on a kinky site, you MUST love genitalia pictures.

2. You HAVE to be a SLUT, duh.

3. You are totally interested in talking dirty with random people.

4. Oh, and answering ANY question, no matter how sexual, intrusive or rude.

5. You’re down for NSA.

I’m sure you can come up with more.

And this applies to ALL genders. The assumption might be different, but we all get them.

Which is why I focus so much on education as a heaping helping side dish to the dating options we offer. Because those assumptions don’t help anyone make the connections they want to make.

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