Dominant is who I am. Topping (or bottoming, or hedonism) is what I do.
Every once in a while, I like to have my little rant about the difference between an identity and an activity. Because no matter how
Every once in a while, I like to have my little rant about the difference between an identity and an activity. Because no matter how
I said in a previous writing: “You may choose to help, but also extricate yourself from the relationship, because you realize most people cannot deeply
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! — Any problem you can’t discuss in your relationship is two problems. Or more. The problem
So, I wrote yesterday (I’m trying to write everyday for a while) about pussy privilege, and how I understand it, and the parts of my
This is the last of this particular series… although not the last of my daily writings. The first two are here: #1 I Posted An
No, don’t “Just trust your feelings,” that’s a most excellent way to fuck everything up. But it’s a catchy tune, for sure. On yesterday’s writing,
Chat Transcript: ZIPPresentation Deck: PDF A monthly discussion about the right side of the (consensual) slash: submission, slavery, property and more. What does submitting mean
This writing is based on a conversation which got me thinking. Someone asked me: What difference do you make between dominant personalities and domineering? I
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