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Reward what you want in your life.
In one of the local discords I’m in, someone posted a link to an article on PolyLand about what makes for a polyamorous relationship that

Dirty Talking: 90% of “What to say?” done for you!
In January 2021, I presented the topic “Talk Dirty to Me” for Dating Kinky. The original presentation was free to all who joined us live,

What does “No” mean?
It just means, “no.” It’s a negative response to a question or offer. “Are you available Tuesday evening?”“No.” “Open to a booty call?”“No.” “Do you




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