…since no one ever achieves perfection.
Now, that means real effort, showing results, regardless of how big or small the changes.
It doesn’t count when you simply say, “I’ll try,” then go about your usual way.
But when you put in effort, it shows, and people appreciate it. They know you’ve listened and you care.
And that matters.
Perfection is unreachable, and near perfection can be intimidating.
But effort? That’s gold.
Someone who I did not know well told me last year that they could tell I loved them. I replied that that statement made me
Labels. We seem to have a love/hate relationship with them. I know that I’ve often railed against a particular label and the constraints I felt
I get asked this a lot. My kinky elevator pitch is that I’m a hedonistic dominant cuckoldress-pimptress who is polyamorous and monoromatic. In a past
We got SOOOO many requests to get a discord server going, and so we have. You now have a 24/7 chat option for Dating Kinky
So, in a lot of writings here on Fet and elsewhere, I constantly see notes about vetting the people you play with and checking references.
Yes. Unless it isn’t. Of course. When is it good for you? Well, I’m guessing when you’re doing it for the right reasons, with the
Unlike the days of being “in the know,” and searching the classified section of The Village Voice to find like-minded kinky folk, kink is no
That. Never.* Helps. Someone once said to me: “She doesn’t have it as bad as she makes out. A lot of people have it a
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