…because they think they are competing against the best they see online, in movies, on TV.
No, you’re just competing with whoever is currently in your target’s inbox.
Usually, it’s like, some schlub with offers of sex or a scammer and believe me – they suck.
Say hello, be authentic and friendly, and give them something to look forward to (or at least give them something that won’t make them scream in frustration like so many do).
Win-win.
It’s a common mistake. To treat communication as a solution, rather than a tool to reach a solution. I’ve made that mistake quite a lot.
I was a child in the height of the AIDS scare, and it has colored my life since I began exploring sex and sexuality. I’ve
As so often happens, ethics have been coming up in many of my conversations of the past few weeks. So much so that I feel
On November 13, 2021, WhosThatBear presented the topic “How to Plan an Orgy” for Dating Kinky’s ‘It’s All About PLAY!’ Weekend event. The original presentation
CW: trans and potentially transphobic language in use. I teach a class on anal play. It’s a great class, full of fun and laughter, and
Recently someone I’ve been loosely connected with online for half a decade sent me a pretty scathing private comment. And it felt…wrong. Like out of
In a recent writing, there was some discussion about how difficult it can be to go to events, and how going to events is a
I identify as a dominant in my relationships. I switch in play from top to bottom, and everything in between. I even enjoy the “submissive”
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