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Took me a long time to learn this lesson, but now that I’ve learned it, I can’t even remember what it was like to feel


Took me a long time to learn this lesson, but now that I’ve learned it, I can’t even remember what it was like to feel

This is the second in a three-part series, based on a recent Craigslist ad. The first is here: I Posted An Ad On Craigslist And
The Big Book Of Ass: All about anal play and pleasure, including training, communication, safety, and more is the second Dating Kinky Presents book. This

In a good relationship, you feel loved, secure, significant…and so many other things. In a GREAT relationship, you’ll have all that AND you will get

A monthly discussion and gathering place for kinky folk of color, and those who want to support kink for all in their spaces (online and

Last year, I wrote a piece about consent. This morning, I got a comment on FetLife on that piece saying: “…the type of consent you’re

I’m not sure I have an answer for that. Could it be as simple as X number of years + twitterpated = true love? I

A few days ago, I wrote about trust, and how my definition of trust in kink and love and community is a different thing than
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