
Feeling safe: what does that even mean?
The idea of safe spaces has been much maligned lately, with people mocking each other (from all sides, this is not a political rant) and


The idea of safe spaces has been much maligned lately, with people mocking each other (from all sides, this is not a political rant) and

Chat Transcript: ZIP Speaking Kinkly is a webinar for kinky folks who want to discover new techniques for communicating effectively. Communication is SEXY, and doing

A friend reached out yesterday about pattern interrupts, because I’ve been preaching them for years, and they had an ‘Ah-ha!’ they wanted to share. They

How is kink different from abuse? This is a totally fair question. After all, many mainstream media depictions (including porn) give the impression that the

A quote from a forum I participate in for men: “If a man rejects Nice Guy-itis, yet has no other option to turn to than

There is no right answer that applies to everyone, I think. Every answer depends on how you see trust. trust firm belief in the reliability,
Because we all know someone who’s been “in the scene” for 20 years and claims to have 20 years of experience, but they really have

Him: Older, debonair-looking older artist man (Jeff Goldblum type-ish). Me: Well, me. The scene: Walking the grounds of the North Carolina Museum of Art, he
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