
Negativity reduces your chances of connecting.
There. I said it. It’s a pretty simple idea: When you are negative, that is the “you” that other people see, and frankly, most people,


There. I said it. It’s a pretty simple idea: When you are negative, that is the “you” that other people see, and frankly, most people,

Poly, to me, is not about having everything for nothing. There is a lot of work and attention that goes into poly relationships. To me,

It’s strange that I need to say this, but I feel like I do. National Unicorn Day was last week. This week (this morning in

Last week, I posted “a day in the life” of me. I talked about waking in the early morning, and the work I do every

Oh, sure… I’m sure you expected that old saw, “Anything worth doing is worth doing well.” Duh. Of course it is. One of my mottos

“Caretaking is mightily loving, it’s a powerful anti-aphrodisiac.” So says Esther Perel in her TED talk, The secret to desire in a long-term relationship. And

Right now, during the pandemic, this holiday has a bittersweet feeling to me. Listen to the podcast: https://podcast.datingkinky.com/e/p8l2pyw8 First, I love that there is a

I believe in making it easy for people to step out of my life. If they don’t want to be here with me, they shouldn’t
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