Love Hurts?
I cringe every time I hear it, and I’d like to state once and for all: Love does not hurt! Fears and insecurities hurt. Love

I cringe every time I hear it, and I’d like to state once and for all: Love does not hurt! Fears and insecurities hurt. Love
The most successful and sexy people I know have the strongest boundaries† and over the past few weeks I’ve been thinking about why that is.

That is a big fat lie. And it’s an easy lie to accept, to internalize, and to use to beat ourselves and others over the

I recently wrote that not asking for what you want and need is a trauma response in many people. And there were several people who

In this pre-recorded bonus episode, Venus and Nookie discuss about cuckolding and it is both like and completely unlike many other forms of nonmonogamy. Also,

For some people in my life, it takes a while for them to really become a fixture. Like, they grow into my life, and I

Ever stopped to wonder how you ended up with these patterns of behavior that seem to be totally negative, and yet, they are so strong?

That. Never.* Helps. Someone once said to me: “She doesn’t have it as bad as she makes out. A lot of people have it a
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