
Remember the feeling when I met you…
For some people in my life, it takes a while for them to really become a fixture. Like, they grow into my life, and I


For some people in my life, it takes a while for them to really become a fixture. Like, they grow into my life, and I

“Caretaking is mightily loving, it’s a powerful anti-aphrodisiac.” So says Esther Perel in her TED talk, The secret to desire in a long-term relationship. And

I’ve been accused more than once (in concept, if not in direct quote) of “sucking the magic out of life,” with my thinking, planning and

Not saying relationships—the right relationships—can’t heal you. They absolutely can. In fact, they can do more for you than therapy in some cases. Some. Maybe

Do you want your friends and partners to lie to you? Some years ago, I wrote a piece titled, “Ask your friends when they want

I read an article a while back that suggested that all career advice for women is a form of gaslighting, because it puts the focus

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! “I had not realized how different the sexual experience of men/women could be. I knew that
You’re gonna be judged. I’m gonna be judged. Every-fucking-body is gonna be judged. Don’t like it? Well, tough tittles.
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