Happy National Just Because Day From Dating Kinky

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I love hugs. I’m a hugger from way back. To me, hugs are like mini-cuddle sessions,

His Steelers lost. We had a deal. He was going to go do “guy’s night” and watch the game and get drunk. I asked that

Compare and contrast these two belief systems and reactions… In a message on FetLife, to me: why men are strong because first thing men don’t

Someone told me that my “self-styled dominance” is simply penis envy. Let me state for the record: I don’t have penis envy. I have a

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As a kinky dating site, I feel like many people are immediately going to think of submission. I mean, I did when I first created

Yes, picking the right partner is tough. I mean, out of SO MANY people in the world, the one right one (or the several right

So, in a lot of writings here on Fet and elsewhere, I constantly see notes about vetting the people you play with and checking references.

A week or so back, a friend of mine said to me: “I hate labels. I don’t even know why we need them.” I don’t