
Experience and fantasy are not the same.
In fact, they are often wildly different. This is true in kink, in nonmonogamy—in anything you might get revved up about. Which, I’m pretty sure


In fact, they are often wildly different. This is true in kink, in nonmonogamy—in anything you might get revved up about. Which, I’m pretty sure

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! “I had not realized how different the sexual experience of men/women could be. I knew that

“A person who is nice to you, but is not nice to the waiter, is not a nice person.” People who are mean to those

The word of the week is “anticipate”. To participate, create a 15-word story with anticipate, anticipates, anticipated, or anticipation. I can’t wait to see your

It’s funny. I’ve never really thought of myself as competitive. More cooperative. Except that Saturday night, as I was teaching my Alpha Submissive class at

I do! I do! I mean, I don’t speak for ALL kinksters. And I would not pretend to. In fact, that’s a challenge, is that

Does being a dominant have a certain set of physical standards to measure up to, for example? On tumblr, someone posted this: I wish my

Dating is about finding a good long term partner, it’s true. However, it is not the long-term relationship itself. It’s even got it’s own word:
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