Happy National Just Because Day From Dating Kinky

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! So, in the first week of January, I holed up and wrote. 68 chapters, about 38,000

I’m proud of my kinks. I don’t go around shouting them from the rooftops, or proselytizing from the pulpit or anything like that, but I

Good luck with that. Really. Good luck. I’m not worried? Nope. Why should I be?

As a collective whole, humans do this a lot. Myself included. And it’s pretty often bullshit. Like this gem I found on social media: UNCOMFORTABLE

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BE POSITIVE!IT’LL GET BETTER!YOU’LL GET OVER IT! The messages are everywhere. See the good. Ignore or push away the bad. Move onward and upward! And

What we do in kink is often called a power exchange. And like most exchanges, you have to actually own what you’re offering regardless of

Let’s talk a bit about white knighting and what it is. White knighting has multiple definitions: Defending someone who does not wish to be defended.

Thinking In Bets, by Annie Duke is an amazing read. Annie is a professional poker player. She’s won millions. And she wrote a book about