And part of refusing to be judged is knowing you are not judging.
Hmmm. That sounds awkward, but what I’m trying to say is that if you are silently judging everyone else, then you will feel, deep inside, that it’s OK to judge, and you’ll accept their judgment of you more readily.
So, don’t judge.
Or, at least be aware of your judging, and really pay attention to what you judge and why.
Because what you judge will affect what you are willing to be judged on, yourself.
On January 1, 2022, Nookie presented the topic “No Regrets Challenge” for Dating Kinky. The original presentation was free to all who joined us live,
How do you go from settling the disputes which happen in normal relationships, by finding the most beneficial solution to all, to losing yourself through
“How do you gain respect from those who are courting your partner? Kinda done being treated like a speed bump on the way to my
A friend. Someone I’d even call a dear friend. Lied. To me. Hid their hurt. Turned me back. And I accepted it. And then, they
And vice versa. Not long ago, I wrote about the damage I have done some people not seeing them as they wished to be seen.
I tend to be direct. Very direct. I mean what I say, when I say it. Sure, sometimes I’m wrong, or I change my mind,
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! This is a question that comes up a lot. In my general Kinky Q&A classes, online
The OP: Men. Are. Trash. (FetLife link.) I disagree entirely. Men are not trash. Women are not trash. PEOPLE are not trash. There are people
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