Don’t Judge. Refuse To Be Judged.

Don’t Judge. Refuse To Be Judged.

A photo of a gavel with the words, "I Refuse!" overlaid.

And part of refusing to be judged is knowing you are not judging.

Hmmm. That sounds awkward, but what I’m trying to say is that if you are silently judging everyone else, then you will feel, deep inside, that it’s OK to judge, and you’ll accept their judgment of you more readily.

So, don’t judge.

Or, at least be aware of your judging, and really pay attention to what you judge and why.

Because what you judge will affect what you are willing to be judged on, yourself.

More Posts

Effort

When Do You Put In The Effort?

In a polyamory group I participate in, I had a very cool discussion about listening in relationships. Here’s how it went: OP: Do you expect

PolyMonsters

“You have me. WHY would you want anyone else?” I get this. It’s a monogamous way of thinking. AND it’s hard for some to break

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

Relationship Black Holes

Relationship Black Holes

A black hole is a region of spacetime exhibiting such strong gravitational effects that nothing—including particles and electromagnetic radiation such as light—can escape from inside

Read More »

Your Trauma

I get it. I’ve been through some shit. You might have been through more. Or less. But that doesn’t matter, really. because, as they say,

Read More »
X