Let’s Talk About References…

Let’s Talk About References…

So, in a lot of writings here on Fet and elsewhere, I constantly see notes about vetting the people you play with and checking references. I even wrote about it. On another site, a young lady who was new to a town wanted to get some ideas on how best to check the...
The Needs Hierarchy

The Needs Hierarchy

So, in PE (Power Exchange) relationships, we all have needs. Knowing what those are and understanding how to get those met is critical. I’ve read a lot about how dominants should put their subs’ needs first. I think this is backwards and wrong, and...
The Responsibility Of The Dominant

The Responsibility Of The Dominant

The dominant is responsible for one thing in their relationship: The entire relationship. Yup. The dominant is responsible for everything in their relationship. How they behave, the results they get, how their sub behaves… Whoa! Wait just one darned minute here....

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