Why Do We Smile At Them?

Why Do We Smile At Them?

There’s this person that no one in the community (that I’ve so far been able to prove) likes, or at least for long. They use words like, “douchey,” “sleazy,” “creepy,” “pushy,” and more. Then, at a party,...
Put Yourself First, Always

Put Yourself First, Always

To some, this is self-evident advice. To others, it feels anathema. For a great majority, it’s just fucking confusing. Especially in kink. Because, well, we take on roles (both voluntarily and unconsciously) that often require giving up our focus on ourselves or...
When Do You Put In The Effort?

When Do You Put In The Effort?

In a polyamory group I participate in, I had a very cool discussion about listening in relationships. Here’s how it went: OP: Do you expect your partners to provide emotional support/listen when you need to vent? If so, do you have that expectation towards all...

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