My new book, The Big Book of Ass, has a chapter titled, “Well, they do it in porn, don’t they?”
In this chapter, I talk about how even porn stars don’t do what they do without A LOT of prep and training (not to mention the “behind the scenes, between-takes stuff), and then days, even weeks of recovery after intense scenes.
Yesterday, I was approached by a man commenting about one of my pictures and posing a question to me:
“Ok so in this picture you have a cuck who I assume you never had sex with but let him worship your feet to some degree. You’re an absolute image, truly gorgeous and from what I can tell a high calibre domme and human being in general. This cuck would love to be inside you but he didn’t (again assuming), he only got your feet.”
“…the thought of being restricted to only be allowed a certain level of intimacy is seriously messing with my mind.”
“When you’re with a sub/cuck do you truly believe they are less than you? Not sure if I can handle the answer.”
I battle this every day on behalf of myself and on behalf of kink.
What you see in porn and online fantasy is GREAT, but it’s not real.
It’s no more real than Jackie Chan being ACTUALLY drunk in Drunken Master. It’s got the same basis in reality that Hans Solo or Jabba does.Continue reading “I’m Writing About Anal Porn…”