…since no one ever achieves perfection.
Now, that means real effort, showing results, regardless of how big or small the changes.
It doesn’t count when you simply say, “I’ll try,” then go about your usual way.
But when you put in effort, it shows, and people appreciate it. They know you’ve listened and you care.
And that matters.
Perfection is unreachable, and near perfection can be intimidating.
But effort? That’s gold.
Pretty freaking fantastic, huh? If I were to look back over my life in kink, there were three decisions that would lead to where I
It’s a common mistake. To treat communication as a solution, rather than a tool to reach a solution. I’ve made that mistake quite a lot.
It’s strange that I need to say this, but I feel like I do. National Unicorn Day was last week. This week (this morning in
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Although, for some people, it may be orgies once in a while. It’s not dating many multiples of blissful, exciting people. Except for when it
I don’t pretend to have the answer. I have my own ideas, that constantly shift and grow with me and my experiences, of course, but
In my past writing on boundaries about two weeks ago, I introduced the six primary types of boundaries: Physical Boundaries Intellectual Boundaries Emotional Boundaries Sexual
Walking the edge. It’s a part of kink that many people crave. The part of their darkness that they are afraid and sometimes ashamed of
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