What we do in our relationships consensually with other adults matters to us. And others should just butt out.
If only it were that easy.
Because for some reason, people feel it’s their right to say who and how we can love. To make this or that illegal or immoral.
Personally, I think it’s a far greater crime to stay married and make each other miserable, the way I see some people doing this thing. And then they call that love.
Dating Kinky is all about supporting you doing you. And possibly others. LOL!
I mean, in whatever way you wish.
Kink.
Nonmonogamy.
Swinging.
Casual Sex.
Friendship.
Whatever.
We’re OK with you and what you’re looking for, as long as it’s consensual between adults (humans—no offense to aliens meant).
In a private kink-adjacent group I’m in on Facebook (probably 98% male-identifying for context), a recent post asked: “Sometimes we go about the subject of
It’s your life, not theirs.
It’s your life, not theirs.
And that’s really what it comes down to, yeah?
What we do in our relationships consensually with other adults matters to us. And others should just butt out.
If only it were that easy.
Because for some reason, people feel it’s their right to say who and how we can love. To make this or that illegal or immoral.
Personally, I think it’s a far greater crime to stay married and make each other miserable, the way I see some people doing this thing. And then they call that love.
Dating Kinky is all about supporting you doing you. And possibly others. LOL!
I mean, in whatever way you wish.
Kink.
Nonmonogamy.
Swinging.
Casual Sex.
Friendship.
Whatever.
We’re OK with you and what you’re looking for, as long as it’s consensual between adults (humans—no offense to aliens meant).
smiles
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