NOT asking for what you want and need is a trauma response…
Or, rather, let me say, “It’s OFTEN a trauma response.” If you don’t ask for what you want and need, only YOU get to say
Or, rather, let me say, “It’s OFTEN a trauma response.” If you don’t ask for what you want and need, only YOU get to say
When people find kink or come back to it after a time away, they often make one simple mistake: They confuse what turns them on
That’s a bit of a joke, but only sort of. When people talk about ‘all the creepsters,’ I generally have a brief moment of confusion.
Compromise behaviors create environments that require more of the same behaviors. —Weick 1979 Sit with that a minute, and think of compromises you’ve made in
Oh. Ouch. That sure can smart. And yet, that conversation needs to be had, so both parties can have the pleasure they deserve from an
Don’t get me wrong. I love me a good laugh. A bit of deprecating humor, just plain silliness, and puns (I know, I know, shoot
I originally created this graphic after a conversation I had with a submissive, but I believe this is true for most people. After all, even
As an interesting aside, when looking for the EXACT words from this little ditty, I discovered that there are quite a few variations. Perhaps this
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