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It’s one of the first pieces of advice I give people new to the world of kink. Make friends. Don’t just come into kink like


It’s one of the first pieces of advice I give people new to the world of kink. Make friends. Don’t just come into kink like

Look familiar? If you’ve not received messages like this, I’m betting your friends have. While I did shorten this conversation a bit (I took out

A switch friend of mine who was in his first relationship as a dominant and was having some challenges navigating plaintive asked me, “Well, what

People lie to me every day. In the strangest ways. I find it fascinating. Because I don’t just write. I read. A LOT. Every day.


In October of 2020, Rem Sequence, an Australian alt model and brilliant thinker, presented the topic ‘Domination, Submission and What’s In-between’ for Dating Kinky. The

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I’ve said loudly and often that the best relationship, in my view, is one where both
I’ve mentioned the 5 Love Languages in many of my classes and even more of my private discussions. It’s a great framework for understanding how others accept
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