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Failure is Success…

Failure is Success…

"ACK! Failure! No, no, no, no! HARD LIMIT!"⁣⁣That was me.⁣ I was a gifted child. If you were one, you know what I mean. Everything was easy. Failure just DIDN’T happen.⁣ Until it did.⁣⁣And then, for me anyway, it was devastating.⁣⁣How can this be? I’m not perfectly...

Defiant Enough

Defiant Enough

I made this meme years ago based on something a friend said to me. I thought it was catchy, and it is. But it’s not really accurate. At least for me. Because “defiance” is not something I look for in my relationships. D/s or not. defiance 1.The act or an example of...

KinkIn15: Frenzy

KinkIn15: Frenzy

The word of the week is “frenzy”. To participate, create a 15-word story with frenzy, frenzied, or frenzies. I can’t wait to see your creativity! smiles Looking forwardTo the pandemic being overAnd goneI smile and predict kinky frenzy

The day I brought the drama…

The day I brought the drama…

Do you ever f*ck something up so badly that it’s seared into your mind forevermore as a “DON’T EVER DO THIS AGAIN” moment? I do. And it’s not really about the fallout to me. It’s usually about how badly I realized I’ve misstepped. In one case, about how I totally did...

Love is like a campfire.

Love is like a campfire.

In the summer of 2020, I went backpacking with my partner for the first time. And I learned that he doesn’t like making fires. As a (somewhat) reformed firebug from WAYYYY back, I was happy to say that I would make the fires. And I’m not very good at it. Yet. Building...

The power of media…

The power of media…

I like to have some TV on in the background when I’m doing a bunch of graphics or tedious work. My favorites are usually police shows. Criminal Minds, Law & Order and so on. Right now I’m rewatching CSI from the beginning. Starting in 2001, it’s amazing to me how...

Love Yourself

Love Yourself

Seriously. You gotta love you more than you love that good dick, or more than that WAP. Because YOU are the only person you’re going to have to live with your whole life. And because if you abuse yourself (using someone else as your tool), you are the one that hurts....

Your Trauma

Your Trauma

I get it. I’ve been through some shit. You might have been through more. Or less. But that doesn’t matter, really. because, as they say, this is not the Olympics. And frankly, our individual abilities to handle stress and bounce back are just that—individual. Judging...

Nothing is wrong with you.

Nothing is wrong with you.

Sure, I don’t know you, and therefore I don’t know if something IS wrong with you or not. Audrey probably didn’t know you, either. So, that makes this meme, along with millions of others online, just as much of a meaningless sop as any other. However, I think that...

What makes love “true?”

What makes love “true?”

I’m not sure I have an answer for that. Could it be as simple as X number of years + twitterpated = true love? I don’t think so. Because I don’t really think there is a true or a false love. Love just is. And sometimes it’s a forever thing, and sometimes it’s not....

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