Oda Nobunaga said “Kill it if it does not sing.”
Tokugawa Ieyasu said “Wait until it sings.”
Toyotomi Hideyoshi said “Make it want to sing.”
Make it want to sing.
Pretty powerful stuff.
When you’re having trouble in your relationships, which path do you take?
Do you enter into battle?
Do you avoid the issue, or wait for it to correct itself?
Do you inspire others?
Really. I don’t. In fact, I tend to trust people far more easily than most. But someone recently told me that I have trust issues.
I recently posted to my FetLife feed with the same question asked to three groups of people: “What’s the most frustrating part of kink and
Or, rather, let me say, “It’s OFTEN a trauma response.” If you don’t ask for what you want and need, only YOU get to say
It’s that simple to put people at ease. In just a few words, you can offer someone the opening to tell you about themselves and
Vulnerability Is… Yesterday, I put up a writing prompt about vulnerability, and said that today I’d post my own view. Vulnerability is opportunity. I’ve been
It’s Sunday. We’re finishing up My Power, Your Power today. Three amazing days of power exchange learning, discussion, coaching, dating, and more. I’m exhausted. Not
…to others or to yourself: It doesn’t solve anything or change behaviors. It is often interpreted as “explain/defend yourself.” We are not logical creatures. In
He is 73. His wife is 17 years younger. His girlfriends (yes, multiple) are often a third of his age. He’s not traditionally attractive. He’s
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