
What You Say Versus How You Say It…Matters
Last year, I wrote a piece about consent. This morning, I got a comment on FetLife on that piece saying: “…the type of consent you’re

Last year, I wrote a piece about consent. This morning, I got a comment on FetLife on that piece saying: “…the type of consent you’re

Oh, I feel you. Deeply. In my core. I’m a direct person, and because of the way my brain is put together, I miss a

In a private kink-adjacent group I’m in on Facebook (probably 98% male-identifying for context), a recent post asked: “Sometimes we go about the subject of
And yes, I realize my title is pretty damn sexist. Because by highlighting the word men like that, I’m making it clear that that is

I see a disturbing trend of forcing everything about a relationship into the box called “love,” and then telling people they are not loving hard

About something. So am I. We are ALL wrong about something, most of us about very many things, both big and small. And that’s Ok.

So I had a revelation the other day in chatting with a fella looking to delve into this thing that we do after a long

Recently I wrote about those people who message others on kinky/dating/other sites, and instead of introducing themselves, start with something a bit more…advanced: “Hi, can
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