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Certification in the WON TWOO WAY™?

Would you take a program to be certified in domination? Or submission? Or slavery? Or being a little or a furry, or whatever? What the actual fuck would that do? Seriously. What good could come of that? I’m genuinely curious. Because to me, this sounds like a way to make money off people who don’t […]

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They Don’t Tell You Because You’re Not Safe, Part 2

I wrote the original piece back in 2016. It was about people not telling certain individuals stuff about their lives, because they will have to shoulder the burden of that person’s RIGHTEOUS ANGER, and they are (for whatever reason) not willing or ready, so they keep mum. Today, I’m going to talk about another reason […]

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Why focus so much on the red flags?

I sometimes like to point out red flag behavior, or things to watch out for in dating. And inevitably, I get a handful of people complaining that “women” are always complaining about men and why don’t we focus on the positives for a change. Well, today I’mma answer that for you. First, when I post […]

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Boundaries are sexy AF: Physical Boundaries

This is the third in a series about boundaries. The six primary types of boundaries are: Physical Boundaries Intellectual Boundaries Emotional Boundaries Sexual Boundaries Material Boundaries Time Boundaries For far, I’ve covered material and sexual boundaries. Today, I’m focusing in on Physical Boundaries: Personal Space and Physical Touch. Which, of course, are related to sexual […]

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Honorifics: The good, the bad, and the ugly.

First, let’s talk about what an honorific IS: hon·or·if·ic, noun: a title or word implying or expressing high status, politeness, or respect. Ma’am is an honorific, or mister. As is Lady, Sir, Domina, Dom, Goddess, Lord, Mistress, Master etc. In general an honorific is a GOOD thing. However, honorifics can get you in trouble as […]

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“Do what feels right!” Yes, but…

“Do what feels right!” Yes, but… Doing what feels right can be good, when you are properly calibrated. But are you? Probably not, at least in some areas. Because over the years, we’ve been calibrated poorly by our parents, by our friends, by people we work with and total strangers. We might do something that […]

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Psuedo-needs in a relationship.

Sometimes we want something so badly and for so long, without getting it that it becomes what I like to call a pseudo-need. And these are both fun to play with and dangerous… In all of my research, no one has ever died from being denied orgasm for a couple of weeks. And yet, after […]

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