I’m proud of my kinks.
I don’t go around shouting them from the rooftops, or proselytizing from the pulpit or anything like that, but I do honor them as an important part of me.
And I don’t feel shame about them.
I am lucky.
I never have.
My parents taught me that what gives me pleasure, and gives others pleasure with me (not just sexy stuff, but in friendship and play as well) is good.
And my kink, by this measure, is WONDROUS.
What about you?
I’ve been writing about selfishness for a long time. I’m a damned selfish person. I know this about myself. I wrote “I’m a Selfish Shit”
It’s a common mistake. To treat communication as a solution, rather than a tool to reach a solution. I’ve made that mistake quite a lot.
A switch friend of mine who was in his first relationship as a dominant and was having some challenges navigating plaintive asked me, “Well, what
Well, I’d put down my book, anyway. I don’t really play many games. Solitaire on my phone sometimes. But the point here is more than
And vice versa. Not long ago, I wrote about the damage I have done some people not seeing them as they wished to be seen.
It just means, “no.” It’s a negative response to a question or offer. “Are you available Tuesday evening?”“No.” “Open to a booty call?”“No.” “Do you
Listen to the webinar! MP3Chat Transcript: ZIP The kickoff event of the all day affair, featuring @TheLadyLeigh and Me (NookieNotes)! We talked about what it
Most people see trust as what others do. I don’t. At least not most of it. Maybe 1%, maybe 10%, to me, is what people
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