It’s Like Toilet Paper Bondage…

Behavior modification, that is.

It’s not like handcuffs or chains, where you do something once, and they are bound by your directive, until you free them.

It’s far more subtle.

Gossamer.

Like restraining someone with toilet paper.

One layer of toilet paper wrapped around their body is real enough to feel, to KNOW, but not enough to hold them.

However, once you’ve put in enough layers (reinforcement) in enough ways (places), their reality is constrained to what you desire.

Behavior modification is like that. It’s not one and done.

It’s not something that is set into place, then sticks forever.

It takes tending. Cultivating. Encouraging. More and more layers.

It’s like toilet paper bondage.

If you could give ONE piece of kinky advice to newbie kinksters, or even to your past self when taking your first step into kink,

So there! stomps foot Bet that’s stops you, huh? Wait. No? It doesn’t? You mean I CAN’T control your behavior with my pixelated demands? You’re

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I will be clear about my position early in this short writing: THE PERSON WHO ABUSES

I have my opinions, of course. And I’ll share. I’m asking you. Because it feels to me that we can go out in public spaces,

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