What if My Consent is Broken?

What if My Consent is Broken?

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Well, fuck. I’m so sorry. Because it sucks. So, first, be kind to yourself. It happens to all of us. Next, talk it out with a trusted friend. Someone that you know will be on your side, and who will keep a level...
A Ticklish Situation

A Ticklish Situation

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I wasn’t going to write today, but I’m just replying to a conversation, and I thought that sharing this experience with you might help some people understand how they come across, even when they (as this...
Consent isn’t actually the key.

Consent isn’t actually the key.

So I had a revelation the other day in chatting with a fella looking to delve into this thing that we do after a long absence. We were talking about BDSM and kink theory. I always try to get a feeling for a potential play partners points of reference, what about all...
High Context Consent VS Low Context Consent

High Context Consent VS Low Context Consent

Yesterday, I met this really cool guy. He’s a scientific comedian (THAT’S A THING!!) and communications educator to scientists. He teaches super-smart, super-technical people how to communicate outside their specialties in low-context language. A couple...

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