It’s Not About The L-Word

It’s Not About The L-Word

Someone who I did not know well told me last year that they could tell I loved them. I replied that that statement made me uncomfortable. I also noted that many of their pronunciations in the past also did not fit well with me, or accurately portray my thoughts. They...
What if My Consent is Broken?

What if My Consent is Broken?

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Well, fuck. I’m so sorry. Because it sucks. So, first, be kind to yourself. It happens to all of us. Next, talk it out with a trusted friend. Someone that you know will be on your side, and who will keep a level...
I’m Gonna R*pe All I Want

I’m Gonna R*pe All I Want

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Over my holiday break (which I really enjoyed), I worked. I worked on plans for 2020, and books due in 2020, and ideas about kink in 2020… Well, you get the picture, I’m sure. And one of the projects I’m...
A Ticklish Situation

A Ticklish Situation

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I wasn’t going to write today, but I’m just replying to a conversation, and I thought that sharing this experience with you might help some people understand how they come across, even when they (as this...
Consent isn’t actually the key.

Consent isn’t actually the key.

So I had a revelation the other day in chatting with a fella looking to delve into this thing that we do after a long absence. We were talking about BDSM and kink theory. I always try to get a feeling for a potential play partners points of reference, what about all...

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