Are you single? Or are you freelance?

Are you single? Or are you freelance?

In her Service Basics presentation for Dating Kinky’s Life in Submission (March ’21 — https://datingkinky.com/learning/life-in-submission/ ), UnrulyNerdGirl made the point that as a service submissive, she preferred to call herself freelance, rather than single....
Sometimes not being in control…

Sometimes not being in control…

I originally created this graphic after a conversation I had with a submissive, but I believe this is true for most people. After all, even the most in-charge, capable, leader-type people like to take a load off sometimes, and just relax. They like to know they can...
Show a little restraint…

Show a little restraint…

There is something very sexy about rope. About being bound and restrained. Even as a dominant, I’ve enjoyed being bound by play partners and artistes. It’s like a corset to me. A feeling of an ongoing hug. It has nothing to do with power for me, and that’s one reason...
Defiant Enough

Defiant Enough

I made this meme years ago based on something a friend said to me. I thought it was catchy, and it is. But it’s not really accurate. At least for me. Because “defiance” is not something I look for in my relationships. D/s or not. defiance 1.The act or an example of...

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