by Bettina | Mar 6, 2021 | Personal
“ACK! Failure! No, no, no, no! HARD LIMIT!”That was me. I was a gifted child. If you were one, you know what I mean. Everything was easy. Failure just DIDN’T happen. Until it did.And then, for me anyway, it was devastating.How can this be? I’m not...
by Bettina | Mar 2, 2021 | Personal
Seriously. You gotta love you more than you love that good dick, or more than that WAP. Because YOU are the only person you’re going to have to live with your whole life. And because if you abuse yourself (using someone else as your tool), you are the one that hurts....
by Bettina | Mar 1, 2021 | Personal
Sure, I don’t know you, and therefore I don’t know if something IS wrong with you or not. Audrey probably didn’t know you, either. So, that makes this meme, along with millions of others online, just as much of a meaningless sop as any other. However, I think that...
by Bettina | Feb 11, 2021 | Personal
Mmmm. YES! For me, sex is fine as a physical. FINE. But add in the mental, the communication, the consent, the need, the desire, and sex is elevated to a whole ‘nother level. My kink is primarily in my head and yours, if I play with you. Sure, I can flog and peg...
by Bettina | Feb 10, 2021 | Personal
I really do. I used to identify as a sapiosexual. I don’t, really, anymore, because when it comes right down to it, I don’t think it’s really a specific type of intelligence, but the package of a person, how it meshes with me, AND that they can inspire me and teach me...
by Bettina | Jan 30, 2021 | Personal
sexsex-positive I suspect they would vary from person to person, and sex, for me is right up there. Let’s see: Love/Friendship/ConnectionFood (OMG, FOOD!)LearningLaughterExplorationNon-sexual TouchDoggosRevenge LOL! Just kidding on that last one. I was running out of...