This is a new series on red flags to watch out for when meeting and dating and connecting with others in kink and elsewhere.
What is a red flag?
Red Flags are called this because a red flag is a well-known warning of danger or a problem ahead, like difficult seas or perilous conditions in the road ahead. The idiom has been in use since the 1800s.
The red flag is not the danger itself.
It’s important to understand that.
An overreaction to a “No” is rarely itself going to be dangerous. At least not the first time. It’s just a warning that things may become perilous moving forward. Emotionally, physically.
And they may not.Continue reading “The Red Flag Diaries: How Do They Respond To Your First “No”?”