The power of words…

The power of words…

A few months ago, someone reached out to me and said: “I am not a perfect person, but, I have worked on the active listening that you mentioned earlier. I am still not perfect; I never will be. But I am working on it, and I believe I have become better for it.But, I...
The tongue has no bones…

The tongue has no bones…

…but it is strong enough to break a heart. There are a lot of people online who say, “It’s just words. Words can’t hurt you if you don’t let them.” To which I say, “Bullshit.” That’s is crap psychology of the highest degree. Words 100% can hurt, and they KNOW this,...
Consistency as a love language…

Consistency as a love language…

I like to say that in interactions with others, you cannot NOT communicate. And consistency is one of those things that communicate loud and clear. I don’t ever make demands of people. Even as a dominant, that is not my style. I ask people to tell me who they are and...
What do you communicate with gossip?

What do you communicate with gossip?

In my book, Understand Me Now—And That’s An Order! I talk about how to be a safe space to encourage your partners to open up to you. There is also being a good friend. And for some, that means sharing all the gossip, about everyone. For others, that is exactly the...

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