Instructional Transcript—Couple

Welcome to the Couple’s Instructional experience for Learn To Love Anal: Finger Pleasuring To The Prostate, Lesson 2.

This Instructional was created for couples to share during the anal training experience, and is intended to teach your giver how to touch your receiver’s prostate for the most potential pleasure.

Let’s get started!

GIVER:

Get your finger very, very wet with lube. Keep it very wet and slippery. Add lube at any time throughout this instructional, pausing the audio, if you feel the need.

Now, slide your finger along the outside of their anus, gently touching. Just sliding it back and forth.

RECEIVER:

Concentrate.

Focus.

Feel that light brush of their fingertip against your ever-so-sensitive nerve endings.

Feel it sliding back and forth, tickling that sweet rosebud while you relax and feel the pleasure.

GIVER:

Keep it soft.

Keep it light.

Gently tease them, smoothly caressing every bit of their tender asshole.

RECEIVER:

Give into the feelings your giver is creating. Relax into their touch.

GIVER:

Feel their body move with your touch.

RECEIVER:

Move your hips around. Lose yourself to the pleasure.

And push.

Push down on that finger. Invite it into yourself. Take it as far as you’ve had it before, to the inner gates, the second sphincter.

GIVER:

Let your finger slide in to the inner sphincter. Allow their ass to guide you. If they tighten, slide out with their movement. When they relax, slide back in.

RECEIVER:

Feel the pleasure of that finger stretching out that sweet anus of yours.

That now-familiar pleasure. Rushing over you.

Spreading from your sweet asshole outwards. Feel it growing. Feel it spreading.

Spreading outward through your abdomen.

Out through your tailbone.

Over to your genitals.

A warmth. Like golden honey. A sparkly, golden, light feeling that covers you.

All from their single finger touching you.

And now, you want more, and you’re taking more.

Relax even further, opening yourself up. Pushing your sweet ass down on their finger tip.

Their finger is sliding in and out of you by the tiniest bits right now. You’re controlling the movement, moving your hips on their finger. Opening yourself up to pleasure.

That’s what you need. To be an active participant in your pleasure. Find your pleasure as you explore your ass together, one small step at a time.

Pleasure is washing over you, from your belly into your chest.

Taking the familiar path up your backbone, to your shoulders, and spreading out. Feel it pooling in your abdomen and genitals.

As their finger gently fucks your sweet asshole.

Back and forth.

In and out.

Every time the two of you play like this, you feel more powerful. More self-aware. Happier and more comfortable with who you are.

You’re accepting this pleasure and need as part of yourself. An amazing, wonderful, sexual and desirable part of you both.

Golden pleasure flows through you.

You feel it fill you in waves now, and you just relax.

Just like you’ve relaxed for the pleasure your partner has brought you before, you relax even more.

Feel the pleasure filling you fully.

Tingling at your nipples

Filling your heart with happiness and comfort.

Up your spine.

Into your mind, where you feel all the warmth and desire that comes from sharing this anal pleasure.

Yes. Relax even more as they touch you. Relax.

You know that so far, this journey has brought you nothing but pleasure. This next step will simply be a continuation of that pleasure.

You trust them. They are reveling in that trust. That vulnerability. They are ecstatic that you have chosen them to open up to in this sensitive way.

You deserve this. You both deserve this.

Relax and feel all of this pleasure. Ready yourself for the next step, a new pleasure.

You deserve this bliss. This joy.

You deserve to feel this fill you. Spreading out from your sweet, needy little ass. That soft brown button of yours.

Ahhh.

Yes.

GIVER:

Your finger is now pressing deeper and more insistently against their inner sphincter. Don’t press quickly, but do press insistently.

So sweet.

So lovely.

RECEIVER:

That’s right. Relax even more.

Open yourself to greater pleasure. Give in to your need.

Open yourself up.

GIVER:

Let your finger tip slide around and around, pressing softly and looking for entrance. Allow them to open to you.

RECEIVER:

Visualize those inner gates opening. Melting around their finger like warm wax.

As their finger tip presses against that softening barrier. Feel yourself opening to them.

Every step you take is another layer of anal pleasure. Additional pleasure for you. For your partner.

Their finger tip slips through your inner sphincter by the tiniest amount.

Feel the new pleasures as it touches new nerve endings in another, even more vulnerable place.

Feel your brain filled with warm, sweet, golden pleasure. Heat suffuses you.

Your body is full of joy and happiness and acceptance. Desire. Need.

You’re learning what it means to truly open yourself to to your partner.

To offer yourself. To be fully present and content as you experience the pleasure of anal penetration.

Because you deserve it.

Because you need it.

Because you crave it.

You deserve to feel such deeply satisfying pleasure. You deserve to feel this warmth.

You deserve to feel filled up. To have your inner barriers breached with care and compassion and tenderness.

You deserve to awaken every last inch of your body to the kinds of pleasure you deserve to feel.

The kinds of pleasure you can feel.

The kinds of pleasure you’re learning to experience for perhaps the first time. Or maybe you’re learning to experience them in new ways.

For your partner and with them.

For you.

Open yourself consciously by relaxing even further.

Ahhh.

Very good.

GIVER:

Slip in a bit deeper. Your finger is slipping easily past their inner gates now.

RECEIVER:

How intimate this is.

The added layers of pleasure. Yet another set of sensitive nerves added to the sensations you’re feeling.

Building up.

Still slow.

Still sweet.

Still so much pleasure.

But growing. Building on itself. Getting more sensitive as time goes on, their finger still touching you. Teasing you. Pampering you.

GIVER:

Slip your finger in and out, around and around. Feel their sensitive inner sphincter responding to you, opening up.

RECEIVER:

Relax even more. Just melt into the pleasure of being taken like this. Of feeling your ass wrapped around their finger.

Concentrate on the amazing sensations you’re feeling now. Experiencing with them.

GIVER:

Slip your finger around the inner sphincter, feeling the muscle respond to your touch.

Press your finger tip back on the other sides of the inner sphincter, sort of hooking your finger around it, exploring it.

RECEIVER:

Feel their finger slipping around inside you. Feel it touching new parts of your body, curling just past the inner gates, and curling around them, touching them from the other side as well.

GIVER:

Touch.

Press.

Slide in and out.

Slowly and sweetly.

RECEIVER:

Pay attention to your body. Have you relaxed enough that you’ve stopped moving? If you have, slowly start rocking your body on their finger again.

Feel that pleasure layering on top of the sweet sensations you’re already experiencing.

Roll your hips. Feel how the pressure of their finger feels differently at different angles.

Feel them sliding their finger in and out through your opened gates.

Feel the rest of their hand pressing up against your body as they go in the tiniest bit deeper as you wiggle around.

Sliding in, then out. Slipping around the inner gates, then diving back in, deeply.

GIVER:

Now, curl your finger towards their belly, finding the firmer rounded surface of the prostate. It’s usually about the size of a hazelnut, but can be as large as a walnut.

RECEIVER:

Move around. Feel that finger tip brush along your prostate, that small mounded bundle of nerve endings.

Feel how even that barest tip of their finger creates a bright, pleasurable, tingling sensation, completely and totally different from the penetration.

Rock your hips against them back and forth by just a quarter inch, waking up each nerve ending to pleasure.

Ah.

Yes.

You’re beginning to really discover the amazing pleasure that slowly and carefully exploring can bring.

GIVER:

As they move around on you, feel the roundness of their pleasure center under your fingertip. Explore it. Try to touch every bit of it’s sensitive surface, to awaken each and every last nerve ending to pleasure.

RECEIVER:

Your body is moving, taking your pleasure from their finger. Your hips are rocking against their hand, pressing their finger into your prostate.

Mmmm.

Feel this new part of your body awaken completely to their touch. Feel the nerve endings light up with pleasure at this new touch. This new sensation.

GIVER:

Slide the tip of your finger around and around. Sometimes be guided entirely by their body. Others, choose your own exploration techniques and movements.

RECEIVER:

You are filled with their finger, being caressed in one of your deepest, most intimate spots.

By your partner.

Concentrate on that fullness. Concentrate on the pleasure.

Focus.

You feel only warm pleasure and deep relaxation.

Layers and layers of amazing pleasure.

Sensation.

Warmth.

Joy.

All from just one finger. Reaching deeply. Intimately. Into your body.

All of this amazing pleasure and warmth.

GIVER:

While your finger plays with their body, focus on pouring all of your affection, love and acceptance into them. Make sure to project your joy with them, for being honored to share this experience.

RECEIVER:

This is all about relaxation.

And pleasure.

And joy.

No expectations to cum.

No need to get off.

Just feel it. Relax into it. Enjoy it.

That’s good.

Wiggle a bit more for them.

Find your pleasure, and writhe around a bit. Explore their finger with your body as they explore your body with their finger.

GIVER:

Explore their body sweetly, lovingly. Watch their reactions and expressions at the different angles, pressures, and depths.

RECEIVER:

Think of how this pleasure feels. Create the memory of this sweet warmth and need.

It’s time to slow down.

GIVER:

Now, slow down and slip out slowly.

Feel your finger getting lighter and lighter as you pet the outside of their anus in farewell.

RECEIVER:

Come slowly out of your pleasure state, still feeling relaxed and stress-free.

Feel a warm energy suffusing your body.

GIVER:

Let your finger finally slow down and drop away.

TO YOU BOTH:

Breathe in deeply, taking a moment to savor the time you’ve just spent focusing on anal pleasure together.

Let’s Discuss!

GIVER: Did you have any challenges finding the prostate, or knowing what to do?

RECEIVER: How did it feel to you? What were your biggest challenges in this step?