Trust In Kink Is A Very Different Beast, For Me
Trust. It’s at the core of all that we claim to do in kink, and yet, the more I dig into the relationships people have
Trust. It’s at the core of all that we claim to do in kink, and yet, the more I dig into the relationships people have
Hanging out with kinsters, reading FetLife, dating freaky folk, eventually it often comes to a point where it all seems so… mundane. So unimpressive. Don’t
I recently wrote that not asking for what you want and need is a trauma response in many people. And there were several people who
Who knew there was a holiday specifically set up to remind you to check your lube levels, and to make sure that you have plenty?
I lie. I have written quite a few pieces about lying, and how it’s really just not acceptable, and people say to me, “But everyone
“What is, ‘Hi, can we be friends?’”“What is, ‘Hi, could I be your slave?’”“What is, ‘Hello, do you need someone to worship you?’”“What is, ‘I
First, I do what I can to be the kind of person that makes predators and abusers incredibly uncomfortable. I hope they will steer far
I say no. But, really, who the fuck am I? I’m someone who does my research and can tell you that scientists also say no.
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