
What Is Strength?
In a comment on [my blog] on one of my writing earlier this week, I was asked: “I hear all the time and see it


In a comment on [my blog] on one of my writing earlier this week, I was asked: “I hear all the time and see it

Four weeks ago, I wrote that communication is a tool, not a solution. I mentioned that without a few key elements, communication is more likely

What makes a dominant decidedly un-dominant? Desperation. It’s not just dominants that often stink of it. It’s any one, of any role, any sexual orientation,

Many people talk about the kink community as more accepting than other communities. Maybe they are right. But “more” is a nebulous term. Perhaps the

I lie. I have written quite a few pieces about lying, and how it’s really just not acceptable, and people say to me, “But everyone
Or, do you punish the lack of perfection? I’ll admit, I do both. It’s hard, sometimes, to recognize that things are getting better when they
Let me be clear: I totally get that I’m on a kinky site. I’m on A LOT of kinky sites, and have been longer than

Do you want your friends and partners to lie to you? Some years ago, I wrote a piece titled, “Ask your friends when they want
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