On being understood, intuitively…

On being understood, intuitively…

I’ve written in the past about abuse in a relationship and recovering from it. And when today’s topic popped up on my calendar, it instantly connected. When I got married, I believed that my husband understood me. This belief is what ultimately led me to...
BDSM Vs. Abuse

BDSM Vs. Abuse

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! This is a question that comes up a lot. In my general Kinky Q&A classes, online by newbies, or people who love someone kinky and are seeking to understand them, and in other classes (like cuckolding) that look to...
The Problem With Blaming Victims of Abuse

The Problem With Blaming Victims of Abuse

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I will be clear about my position early in this short writing: THE PERSON WHO ABUSES IS ALWAYS AT FAULT. I don’t care how much they are enabled. Enticed. Provoked. Needled. Wheedled. Stressed in daily life....
Words CAN Hurt

Words CAN Hurt

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Someone commented on one of my writings that: women are conditioned from birth to not be “whores” or “sluts” or whatever other derogatory term is used to shame you into suppressing your...

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