Communication At The Rope Room, Mebane, NC

The Rope Room

Soooo, I’ve been meaning to write about The Rope Room for a while, and today I have a GREAT excuse.

I’m teaching my second class there on Friday, March 29, 8-10pm.

I Command You To Understand! Communication In Power Exchange Relationships

This is one of my favorite classes, and a core class for kink, in my view.

I’m a HUGE fan of communication of all kinds, and I’ve been studying for years different techniques, and sharing them with others. This class is presented from the perspective of D/s, power exchange, and poly, while still applying to all relationships, kink and vanilla.

So, I’m excited to offer that class locally again. It’s been a few years.

You can RSVP on Fetlife here: https://fetlife.com/events/766658

More, I’m excited to present at The Rope Room, because it’s a great new space in the area, and deserves our local love.

The Rope Room has been used primarily for rope events, as you might guess, and it has so much to offer for that.

Even more, as a gathering space for discussions and classes, it’s also quite suited, and my first class out there on FemDom topics was comfortable, well-organized, and an all-around great experience.

The Rope Room is not a play space, as they are not insured for such things, but for rope, classes, gatherings and more, I think we’re quite lucky to have them.

I hope if your in the local area that you will join me for an evening of communication, socializing, and some edutainment!

*smiles*

Cuckolding for Couples, Black Rose, Washington, DC

Black Rose

I’m teaching a Saturday Night class on Cuckolding!

Cuckolding for Couples

Cuckolding is a hot trend online these days, but is it a viable kink? I’ll give an enthusiastic YES!

Not only is it a fun fetish for cuck and cuckoldress, but it actually enhances intimacy, love, creativity and fun in your relationship.

Cuckolding Party

Based on my popular 2 1/2 month online course, this class covers setting ground rules, finding a bull, creating an amazing cuckolding relationship and trouble shooting.

Cuckolding for Couples

Cuckolding is a hot trend online these days, but is it a viable kink? I’ll give an enthusiastic YES!

Not only is it a fun fetish for cuck and cuckoldress, but it actually enhances intimacy, love, creativity and fun in your relationship.

Based on my popular 2 1/2 month online course, this class covers setting ground rules, finding a bull, creating an amazing cuckolding relationship and trouble shooting.

Poly-Wha? Ethical Non-Monogamy For Everyone

Polyamorous, open, swing, poly-fidelous, monogamish… so many ways to say that you enjoy ethical non-monogamy, or more than traditional one-on-one coupling.

But what does it all mean, and how does it all work?

In this class, we’ll discuss labels, relationship patterns, communication, communication, and communication.

It’s all about finding what works for you and your partners, once you step out of the relationship box and into ethical non-monogamy.

Protocol 101

What is protocol and why do you need it? Not all protocol is bowing and kneeling and “yes, Sir,” and so on. Protocol can be every day traditions and rituals built over time. In this class, we’ll explore the many types of protocol, and how to choose the protocols you want most in your life and your relationships.

Taming your Masculine Pride: Male Submission

“Kneel lowly worm! You are not worthy to lick my boots!”

Oh, jeez. Ummm. Ok, so that’s not gonna work. Not for 90% of the submissives, male or otherwise, I know.

So why is it such a pervasive idea?

Taming your Masculine Pride: Male Submission Class Description

There is a lot online and in print about submission, mostly female-oriented, because, let’s face it, there are more female submissives than male. And what male submissives are writing is more fantasitical and porn-driven than what you’ll find in a real relationship. So, can you be yourself in today’s society and still submit? Yes! You can. Nookie will give you all the tools you need to find your way.

FemDom: Finding Your Feminine Leadership Style

“I don’t want to be a FemDom. I don’t like leather!”

To some, this may seem silly. To others,this pretty much describes their attitude. They’ve probably been beset by do-me subs and seen too much porn or TV episodes with bitchy ice queens.

This class will bust all those assumptions.

FemDom: Finding Your Feminine Leadership Style Class Description

There is a lot online and in print about domination, mostly male-oriented, because, let’s face it, there are more of them than us. There is still a lot about femdom out there, too, though. Unfortunately, it seems like a lot of that is actually written by men, too, being over-sexualized and fantastical. This class is about the real deal. How to find YOUR perfect balance of hot, sexy, tough, firm, loving, sweet, and whatever else you want to throw in the pot.


Read a bit more about what I think about FemDom.

Sexy, Safe & Pain-Free Anal (Including Pegging!)

What, what? In the butt!

Oh, that never grows old for me. And neither does anal play. There is so much amazing pleasure to be had that is overlooked because “It hurts,” or “It’s wrong.”

Let’s talk about anal pleasure and separate fact from fiction, demystifying the process.

Sexy, Safe & Pain-Free Anal (Including Pegging!) Class Description

Based on my book In Through The Out Door, this class is for those of you curious about anal, but (get it, butt? LOL!) worried about the pain, the mess, the ghey, and more. Come and spend some time with me learning about spear-fishing for poop sharks! *smiles*

Yield Your Strength: Living And Loving As An Alpha Submissive

“You’re not submissive!”

If you’re an alpha submissive, you’ve heard this enough times that you may even be starting to believe them. After all, you’re no doormat, you have standards, and damn it, you know how to run the show.

You just don’t want to.

The Alpha Submissive Class Description:

You know you are submissive. And yet, you are a strong, take-charge kind of guy or girl, which makes some dominants complain of topping-from-the bottom, or claim that you’re not submissive at all. How do you find your submission and yield, when the time is truly right?

Dating Kinky, The Class

One of the most common questions I’m asked is, “Where Do I Find ______ (Fill In The Blank Amazing Kinky Person)?”

This class address that topic and others, including writing a profile, photos, starting a conversation, and more.

Dating Kinky Class Description:

In this class, we’ll cover some of the most important actions and attitudes for finding one or several lifestyle partners, from writing your profile and choosing the best photos to get your point across to making contact, common pitfalls, and some hilarious examples of ‘when personals go wrong!’

We’ll also discuss which online sites offer the best options for connecting with your kinky peeps.

This is a very interactive class, so bring your pencil or pen and some paper to write down those tips from the creator of https://www.datingkinky.com and the co-author of http://datingkinkybook.com


More about my thoughts on kinky dating:

Kinky Dating