Settling is Shitty

Settling is Shitty

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I got into a conversation on twitter yesterday about online and offline dating and how many people write their profile one way but want something else, and are discouraged about getting that something else, so they...
Playing In Public Consensually

Playing In Public Consensually

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! So, I wrote a chapter in my FLR, FemDom and Women In Charge book (out this month, benefiting FAD), answering the question: What Do We Do In Public To Exhibit Our WIC Relationship? And, as usual, most of it applies...
Shame & Kink, Kink & Shame

Shame & Kink, Kink & Shame

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! In the book I released this month, So, What Is Kinky, Anyway, one of the questions I answered was about shame. So, Tuesday night, when we had our webinar panel discussing “What does kink mean to me?” I...
What Level Of Kink Are You?

What Level Of Kink Are You?

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! When I type it out like that, it sounds stupid. And it kind of is. Except that LOTS of things are kinda “duh” when you’ve been at something for a long time, but very much less so when you are new...

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