Have you ever been afraid to say no?

Yesterday, for the second time, I saw a post on social media with screenshots from @jadedxxxdreams, and this time, it really connected with me: Some women have a higher body count because they’re afraid to say no when they’re put in a situation that involves sexual pressure from a man

Ch-ch-ch-changes (or 12 years, and 1200 blogs)

Last Friday, someone commented that my next writing on FetLife would be number 1,200. I don’t focus much on numbers, really. I just write. And as another friend of mine says (about herself), I’m a wordy bitch. But it did make me stop and think. (Prefer to listen to the

Yes, they really DO know the difference.

Recently I wrote about those people who message others on kinky/dating/other sites, and instead of introducing themselves, start with something a bit more…advanced: “Hi, can we be friends?”“Hi, could I be your slave?”“Hello, do you need someone to worship you?”“I will lick you head to toe.” And a favorite I

“The world doesn’t work like that…”

It’s an easy trap to fall into. I caught myself thinking it this morning. It was about someone who mentioned offhand that they were on 213 Discord servers, and nearly made my head explode. 213!?!? OMFG! And in my mind, I thought (in no particular order): “That’s not possible.” “They

“Hi There! My name is Dug. I have just met you and I love you.”

“What is, ‘Hi, can we be friends?’”“What is, ‘Hi, could I be your slave?’”“What is, ‘Hello, do you need someone to worship you?’”“What is, ‘I will lick you head to toe.’” “I’ll take ‘Things only dogs can successfully say to strangers,’ for 500, Alex.” (Prefer to listen to the podcast?

CelestialOrbit: Will I take orbit around you?

We totally ❤️ our members, and we want to pimp you out! That means featuring you on our blog and social media. Today, we are featuring and loving on CelestialOrbit! I’m a shy, introverted, cross-dressing, submissive (switch in the making) little/middle looking to learn, grow, make friendships, find play partners,

Do you put yourself first?

Maybe it feels a little out-of-character (or a lot out of character) to put yourself first. Especially if you grew up trying to anticipate everyone else’s needs or wants, act a certain way, wear this, don’t say this, on and on. Maybe because you’re a pleaser. Maybe you were socialized

Who could use a day off? 🙋🏻‍♀️ 🙋🏼 🙋🏾‍♀️

If I’m going to be totally honest, I took one yesterday. smiles (Not really, though. I still did about an hour of work.) And I’m on my vacation. My once-a-year vacation. I’m not very good at taking time off. Especially not now, when we are finishing a last round of

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