Testing the Embed

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! While we were in Madrid in September, we took several tours through AirBnB experiences (I highly

Most of us have at one point or another. And I’ll be clear, it’s hard to know the answer. I certainly can’t tell you. Because

It’s an easy trap to fall into, to focus on the good in everyone. It seems like the right thing to do. See the good

If I’m not all in, willing to see where it will go, I don’t bother. I won’t waste your time or mine. Who can give

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I do! I do! I mean, I don’t speak for ALL kinksters. And I would not pretend to. In fact, that’s a challenge, is that

Mmmm. YES! For me, sex is fine as a physical. FINE. But add in the mental, the communication, the consent, the need, the desire, and

Until I don’t. For example, I love touching someone as I fall asleep, but I hate being trapped while I’m sleeping. That will just make

Yesterday, I wrote about using sex as a weapon, and how it’s shitty. I specifically pointed out in the piece that withholding sex is your