
One Bad Ass Bitch (Or Whatever)
At every moment in your life, you can make a choice. A choice to no longer be someone’s little bitch (unless that’s your kink—in which

At every moment in your life, you can make a choice. A choice to no longer be someone’s little bitch (unless that’s your kink—in which

Oda Nobunaga said “Kill it if it does not sing.” Tokugawa Ieyasu said “Wait until it sings.” Toyotomi Hideyoshi said “Make it want to sing.”

Back in April, I wrote That ONE Thing You Didn’t Do, which sparked some good debate from both sides, in agreement and against. After all,

Maybe. I don’t mean that in a bad way. If you immediately got your hackles raised, take a deep breath, hear me out, then please,

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! This is a question that comes up a lot. In my general Kinky Q&A classes, online

In my class on protocol, I talk about a conflict resolution protocol I have in place in my relationships.
It’s based on a joke I make about communication:
“I command you to stop being upset!”

Not because it is a “No.” I mean, it might be (quite likely), but I’m not going to pretend to read someone else’s mind. Because

When I’m talking about kink and nonmonogamy and relationships, I’ll often use the analogy of strength training or lifting to explain how something are uncomfortable
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