If I’m not all in, willing to see where it will go, I don’t bother. I won’t waste your time or mine.
Who can give 50% and be happy? Who can get 50% and be happy?
Not I.
Relationships are 100%/100%.
And this is the same for me in nonmonogamy as in anything else. If I’m not willing to explore everything that the relationship could be—whatever that is—I’m not going to even start. That’s not fair to anyone.
If I have ONE rule in relationships—kinky relationships, PE relationships, vanilla relationships, any kind of relationships—it’s ‘No Regrets.’ Now, I don’t mean doing something, then
Ah! I hate this. Been there, done that, got the shitty self-image and broken heart to go with it. Someone wrote to me, and asked:
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Well, fuck. I’m so sorry. Because it sucks. So, first, be kind to yourself. It happens
I’ve always thought Meatloaf had it backwards. “I want you. I love you, but there ain’t no way I’m ever going to need you…” THAT’S
The second most common question I’m asked. The first is “Where do I find __ (fill in the blank amazing kinky person)?” So, the two
Four weeks ago, I wrote that communication is a tool, not a solution. I mentioned that without a few key elements, communication is more likely
Ummm. Yes, yes you can. Just like in poly, there is a thing as friendship saturation, when you find yourself without time for everyone in
I’ve been writing a lot about boundaries lately. In fact, I’m going to finish my series on the six types of boundaries tomorrow. And when
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