All In Or Nothing

All In Or Nothing

If I’m not all in, willing to see where it will go, I don’t bother. I won’t waste your time or mine.

Who can give 50% and be happy? Who can get 50% and be happy?

Not I.

Relationships are 100%/100%.

And this is the same for me in nonmonogamy as in anything else. If I’m not willing to explore everything that the relationship could be—whatever that is—I’m not going to even start. That’s not fair to anyone.

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Communication: Conflict Resolution Protocol

Communication: Conflict Resolution Protocol

In my class on protocol, I talk about a conflict resolution protocol I have in place in my relationships.

It’s based on a joke I make about communication:

“I command you to stop being upset!”

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Of Course I Lie

Of COURSE I Lie!

I lie. I have written quite a few pieces about lying, and how it’s really just not acceptable, and people say to me, “But everyone

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