…because they think they are competing against the best they see online, in movies, on TV.
No, you’re just competing with whoever is currently in your target’s inbox.
Usually, it’s like, some schlub with offers of sex or a scammer and believe me – they suck.
Say hello, be authentic and friendly, and give them something to look forward to (or at least give them something that won’t make them scream in frustration like so many do).
Win-win.
CW: trans and potentially transphobic language in use. I teach a class on anal play. It’s a great class, full of fun and laughter, and
Back in March, I wrote about healthy boundaries in emotional intimacy, and talked a bit about “too soft” boundaries and oversharing. I did not define
This piece from totalfratmove.com was featured in this writing (FetLife Link), which I read in the wee hours today. He’s funny. Or rather, many of
That was one of the questions I asked last night in a lively debate about love and sex and kink. I had been talking about
In my years of studying people in and out of relationships, there is nothing, and I mean NOTHING that stands out as more important than
Someone wrote to me (paraphrased and anonymized): I was brought into a relationship by a couple who wanted a quick fix. I brought their issues
On FetLife, I am a kinkster. On my kinky dating sites, I am a dominant. I also identify as bisexual in some places and heteroflexible
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Let me ask you a question: Do you know a lightweight? Someone who gets drunk easily?
Copyright © All rights reserved, Dating Kinky, Inc.
